im 14 yrs old and i only want to talk to girls my age. you can say all you want that im too young for this stuff, but theres not that much time left for people like me to meet kinds of girls i want to meet. i dont want a girl that you would meet in a bar OR always stuck up in a church. school is the only place i can see a lot of people with a nice blend of decensy and fun loving. so any tips? and how do i talk on a phone for half an hour or longer with someone i havent already made good friends with?How to flirt with girls?
the best way to get close to a girl is to know more about her. So, ask questions and wait for the answers. Don't talk about yourself until she asks. Here and there compliment her on her dressing (not her body).
Denisp.How to flirt with girls?
hey im 16 and im a senior at high school, we are not that far apart and trust me your 14 there is still a long way from you meeting a girl in a bar or anything and church tell you the truth from personal experience girls from church are much better a little stuck up but hey if you wan wifey material go to church, but than again your young.
about your prob well just make friends with a girl who you like dont just flirt first than become friends later no first freinds talk to her listen to her. but atention to her comment back. it is easy i know that the first couple minutes or days are difficult but than you will be your self with that person and it will just be really easy.
talk to them about movies and music n try to exchange your download music with them thats all i can say for a 14 years old.
to keep a conversation going ask questions about the other person and find out what you have in common with them. Eventually they will say something you can relate to and you can talk about that topic.
It kinda just depends. Usually a good female friend leads to a crush..
It all depends on the person..some girls I just can't really talk to, but some girls I can just talk forever with. When I was about 13/14 I had a friend named brittney, just a friend but we could talk non stop for HOURS....if your really slick that helps, but it depends on you, and the person your trying to talk to.
here's what you gotta do!!!! TRUST ME.
okay at school, if you want the chicks to be all over you, stare at 3 certain girls (during classes). look her in the eye and dont smile. make yourself look intimidating as POSSIBLE. if she looks back, just keep staring. wear your pants really low so you can see your boxers and wear over-sized shirts. get some sunglasses and wear them 24/7. (except during classes) Never, ever, EVER smile at anyone, keep a STRAIGHT face. go to friday night football games and find one random girl to stare at. during the whole game. keep staring at her constantly. when you see her leaving, go up and ask for her number. if she says no, grab her by the shoulders, stare into her eyes and strongly say ';give. it. to. me.'; If she continues to refuse, grab her towrds you and hold her close. Whisper in her ear, ';Sweetie, you dont want me to hurt you, do you?'; by then, she will give you her number and be your girlfriend. now that you have a girlfriend, you need to get another girlfriend. at school, go up to random girls during classes and say ';oh daaaaang, i wanna get with THAT!'; and by then, you'll have a few more girlfriends. this makes you a player. and EVERY girl wants to date a player. Now, every weekend, crash a party and bring along one of your girlfriends. Keep a straight face, and stare at just one girl at the party. Ditch your girlfriend and go up to the other girl and ask for her number. Then take her to a quiet bedroom and get her to get with you. Now you have another girlfriend. in at least a month, every girl will be crawling all over you!!! ;)
Looks aren't important. Look at me. Really look at me. I am ugly as @#$, by traditional standards, but I still get with women. Aren't you curious as to how that's possible?
There are three rules when it comes talking to women. Number 1 ask questions, don't say anything, because women, all they wanna do is talk about themselves so you're just gonna let them do that. 2 be cool and 3 be kind of a dick. Look be like David Caruso in ';Jade';.
flirting with girls isn't easy. I'm a girl and guys can be really misleading. although I'm 15, and interested in a 17 year old, its the same situation. one piece of advice, if you like her, don't beat around the bush and act like you don't like her. Also, you shouldn't talk on the phone for 30 minutes, because the next time you talk to her you might have ruled out everything to talk about. But when you want to flirt, all I can say is be cute, at this time girls want guys to be cute, ask her to a dance in a creative way, kiss her at perfect moments. and never, ever, ever, show PDA. it shows you have some dignity about you. hope this helps, and good luck snagging the girl.
i was exactly the same when i was that age.... and it's not so much something that you can learn but the nervous feelings you get when you first meet someone and want to get to know them make it so much more fun... about talking on the phone first try and find things that you both have in common or find interesting... you don't have set guide lines you have to follow when talking to a girl a simple conversation is the best way... so she can find out about you too... to get to know each other...
but with the flirt thing... it's not something you sort of noticably do... well i know with me it just sort of happens...
hope i helped...
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