Hi I need advice on how to flirt with girls more especially with the girl I really like so I can get her attention
Please Help!! Urgent No stupid answers please
10 points up for grabs! BTW im 14How to flirt with girls!!! Help :( 10 points best answer!!!! Urgent?
Flatter her and be romantic. Not cheesy or patronizing! Be funny and kind and treat her like a REAL PERSON
Steps
1. Be yourself. Do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, pick-up artist, witty conversationalist, or having a profession that you do not have. Even if it does impress her momentarily, the truth will surface eventually, and you will likely lose her trust and her interest. It is much better to be honest from the beginning.
2. Start a conversation with her. Most girls want guys to make the first move, so speak with confidence and flow, demonstrating that you are secure with yourself. You can pretend the confidence at first, and it will come more naturally when she responds to you.
3. Listen more than you talk. This doesn't mean sit there like a dud, but ask a question, wait until she is completely done talking, then make a comment that shows you were listening. Also, don't interrupt her. Girls hate that. This will kill your chances really fast. Also, except if the matter is very important, don't argue a lot.
4. Be bold but also courteous. If you can't think of anything else to say, look her in the eyes and compliment her. Don't be afraid to speak up, or you will never get anywhere!
* If she has a scarf on that you think is nice, tell her, and touch her scarf for a few seconds, and ask when and where she got it. Use an undertone鈥攇irls love it when you lean towards them and murmur a compliment.
* Don't overwhelm her with compliments. You should focus on going from ';nice acquaintance'; to ';intimate friend/potential lover'; smoothly. Intimate friends joke around, tease each other gently, touch each other. Start with touching her on the arm when you're laughing (don't watch the hand). See if she touches you.
5. Find out her interests, and music she likes. Then talk to her about them. If you can't think of anything to talk about, use a conversation starter like ';How has your day been?'; or ';Don't you love this time of year?';. These most usually only work if you are already friends with her, and you see her on a daily basis. If you do see her on a daily basis and she mentions, for example, a vacation she is going on soon, inquire where she is going, and branch off from there; when she gets back ask her how it was. Don't be extremely serious in your inquiry, just ask it casually.
6. Be funny. Most girls agree that a good sense of humor is attractive. Humor can also relieve awkwardness. If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well as confidence, and blending those with humor can be a very effective combination.
* Teasing a girl can be a good way to make her laugh and keep things interesting. Just don't joke about something that may be a sensitive issue, such as her weight. If she strongly cares about saving the trees, for example, and you rip up paper in an attempt to get laughs, she'll just end up hating your guts.
* Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don't use it too much, otherwise it loses its humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.
7. Don't be too eager to start conversing with her at every possible opportunity. When she walks into the room, you do not have to jump up and say ';Hi!!'; immediately, but if she sits next to you and initiates conversation, go for it!
Tips
* Try to get her to talk more about her self, and show interest in what she has to say. E.g. you: ';what do you do in your free time?'; she: ';I like to edit on wikiHow.'; you: ';wikiHow!! that's great! how interesting! I just found out about it myself! Isn't it great? Please do tell me more about wikiHow!'; Then let her talk while you nod, smile, say ';yes'; etc.
* No one is out of anyone's reach. It's all about timing, and proper procedure. If you begin a conversation with someone you are interested in with confidence and be yourself, you may be surprised whom you can attract.
* Strange as it may seem, some very pretty girls have never been flirted with or have had a boyfriend because other boys are just as nervous about talking to them as you are. Don't be scared off just because you're intimidated. Sometimes these super popular girls are even lonely because they feel they have all these friends and no one wants to go out with her. So become her friend first and then move on to the flirting (don't stay her friend too long though; she may worry a relationship may ruin a friendship); this way you will not scare her off.
* Flirting is supposed to be fun, so the less stressed and more relaxed you are, the better. Be happy and enjoy the time you spend with a girl, even if nothing else comes of it.
* Remember, no maHow to flirt with girls!!! Help :( 10 points best answer!!!! Urgent?
just be nice to them, help them out. Laugh at a lame joke they tell... Just be NICE!
There's no set way to flirt. If you want a girl to like you then just be nice. Girls are always impressed by a sweet guy. Also, be yourself. Girls hate phonies.
Here's a start. When your in a line or something, go up to her and when she turns around say
';You got something in your hair.';
Pretend your getting something and she'll either say thanx and turn back around or just stand there.
You : ';That'll be 10 bucks';
She says why';
you say (i don clean for free)
she either smiles or hesistates
if she smiles BAM instant number or hookup (88% of time)
if hesitates say well heres a deal. get me a drink BAM instant number or hookup (75% of time)
Okay, here's the most important things, and works pretty well on me ;)
1. Eye contact
2. Smile
3. Tease her
4. Try and make her laugh
5. Compliment her
6. And be kind of touchyy!
If she is into, she'll respond to your moves by laughing alot, smiling alottt, and she'll touch you some too. If not, maybe try again some other time..?
Good luckkk!
And don't listen to ';ShaneOmack'; or whatever, because that's really lamee. haha
Just be yourself! I know it's kind of hard when you have mush brain her, but if you try to be someone you're not, then you're just lying to her. personally, I REALLY don't like being lied to.
just have fun and remember to be your self
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