I want guy friends?

im a 15 year old guy and i was home schooled thru my middle school years... now in my last grade, 6th i had a lot of guy friends. now in high school, im having trouble making guy friends

the girls thought i was really hot and funny nad quickly i made a lot of girl friends.. i do have guy friends but there in my ethnic group and i want friends outside of it... i wanna be like those tough asshole guys but in reality im a shy dude and im kinda quiet. and i just need to get over it. becasue i hate being quiet and i want guy friends.



its weird, i guess i know how to flirt with girls and joke around. but im not a man. i WANT to be more manly and a jerk and that kinda stuff. i want to be an ****** type of guy. or atleast mature. i wanna have this bro b4 hoes stuff. i mean i do have guy friends but i have way more girl frenz than guys. and im good freinds with girls i just want to have dude friends. all of my guy friends are either from football or ethnic group. i hate hanging with girls 24/7I want guy friends?
stop being so naive!

i know that sounds harsh but you should reread what you wrote. it sounds awful. i understand where you are coming from but just be yourself instead of wanting to be all macho. plus, if you have all the girls, eventually some guy will notice you!I want guy friends?
';i WANT to be more manly and a jerk and that kinda stuff';

What the **** is wrong with you?
Just be yourself and stay away from them. If they are treting you meanly just don't hang out or be around them or look at them take my advice okay it will work.
hey im 15, and a girl and i hope this helps. but girls honestly love the shy quiet type of guys and it also helps if your hot too! but being a jerk and a *** doesnt show that your a tough guy or one of the ';men';. just start hanging w/ a group of guys that you would fit in with, but dont be too clingy. hope this helps =]
Try being involved in some things that include mostly guys. For example, sports, or any other type of activity or club that could force you to hang out with guys.
stay with the girls dude way more booty there um dont think you want to guy booty but think of this bros be4 hoes is a bunch of BS your just limiting yourself guys friends are ok but i rather be gettin a BJ instead of talkin bout one
Well, you should probably grow a pair.



Cheers!

~Crisp Cash
do u really want to change the way you are because other people tell you too , or because you are afraid of what other people will think of you..,, are you really that weak, just be your self and try to help out
It makes sense to want to hang out with more guys, but you don't want to loose the friends that you already have. Girls hate jerks, dont aim to be a bad person. It's really not cool. I think you should start talking to other guys more often, but becareful of the person you might become. Being shy is really hot and I bet all of the guys r jealous of how you talk to girls, maybe try teaching them how to talk to girls, that can build freindships real quick
no, forget that be who you are dont try to be somthing ur not. if they dont like you then thats there fault you dont want fake friends who only like you for the person that you are trying to become, b/c in the end they wont be true. dont rush things, enjoy life and the people who like u. b/c it's u they are liking.
try to act manly and learn man jokes about girls
I am a girl and I think your crazy. I kind of have the same situation: I moved this year across town and to a new high school. At first, I only made guy friends and it seemed like I wouldn't make any new girl friends. I am in dance and as soon as the first few weeks passed, I found myself with so many new girl friends because of that class, in addition to my guy friends. I still hang out with my old friends and I love my school now.



Just wait it out, and you will make new friends. But be yourself, because I, and so many other girls, do not want to be friends with some jerk. You sound really sweet and I don't think you should change just to make friends, because in the end you won't have any at all.

How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?

Forget about nerves, I'm pretty much over being scared of approaching girls I like, but now I have no idea what to talk about. I hate it when people say, ';talk about anything,'; because when I look around my room I don't see anything I think a girl would be interested in. It's like when I'm asked out of the blue what I want to eat; 95% of the time I have no idea, not even remotely. My main problem is I am clueless in how to flirt with girls while I'm talking to them because I don't know subtlety. I don't know how to make my intentions of being more than a friend apparent w/o being obvious, such as saying, ';you have very pretty eyes';. I've read articles online about how to compliment or tease her uniquely and some say not to say ';you have pretty eyes.'; WHAT IF I LIKE LOOKING AT HER EYES BECAUSE I LEGITIMATELY THINK THEY'RE PRETTY!!!!!!! Other articles say touch her hand or hair gently. That sounds very awkward. Do you see what I'm getting at. Men are not subtle creatures. I often find myself talking to my other friends about science and I know she likes science. Also, I don't really know if I should try to get to know her first before flirting with her or flirt with her to see if she reciprocates the emotions and then get to know her more. As you can see I'm a VERY LEFT BRAIN thinker and to me flirting is very illogical. I'm not a very creative person and I like definition. I know girls differ, but if there is even a small guide I can use please help.How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
I think you're over thinking this way too much. Just be natural-be yourself. Anything less than this would seem awkward or forced. I suggest finding something that you have in common with the girl your interested in as a starting point for conversation. This might take some probing. Just ask her what she likes to do, find out where she's from, where does she work or go to school. Girls love it when you show genuine interest in getting to know them as a person. You sound like a very thoughtful, intellectual guy. That, in and of itself, is an attractive asset. Focus more on starting off as friends. It always works out better in the end. How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
Simply ask her questions about herself. EVERYBODY like talking about themselves - and once you get her talking it'll get you thinking about things you have in common.


';WHAT IF I LIKE LOOKING AT HER EYES BECAUSE I LEGITIMATELY THINK THEY'RE PRETTY!!!!!!! Other articles say touch her hand or hair gently. That sounds very awkward.';



LOL dude you cracked me up with this 1 (thats a good thing)

I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?

i was in a relationship for 4 years, and i think i forgot how to flirt with girls. I use to be so good at it, but it seems so long ago. Im a decently good looking guy and i dont really have trouble finding girls. I just cant flirt with them.



Any tips.I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
Yes.

Different girls like different things.

How to flirt with girls ?

This is how i do it. To make them laugh and show Im a cool guy.

Hey. You have pretty eyes (she knows ur flirting) then she says thank you. And then laugh lil and say I lost my number, can i have yours?How to flirt with girls ?
Why flirt with them?How to flirt with girls ?
dude girls are experts in flirting
Just plain bad luck, maybe lack of confidence you don't demonstrate value etc. Basically with any girl what you wanna do is start with a thing called a neg which means you say a brief statement to disqualify you as a potential suitor, then you kinda ignore her for a while and concentrate on her friend that increases her interest in you. Next thing you do is demonstrate higher value via jokes, and pretending to be rich smart sexy. At thi9s point you start looking out for IOI's which are indicators of interest such as touching her own arms or stroking her hair etc, to make sure u do a trust test all you do is grab both of her hands and moves them in different directions and then squeeze them if she follows that means she trusts you, at this point you need to isolate her from others. and start kino escalation basically touching her an making her more comfortable around you, at this point have a couple of sad yet romantic stories ready about how she should not loose any time otherwise love might slip away, than if you are confidence enough and wanna go for a kiss close just ask her what sort of a kisser she is most are usually comfortable with kissing you otherwise just get her number and repeat. Now I am no expert and I do have a limit to how much I can write but basically look up the mystery method online
it should come naturally. you shouldn't need a tutorial about how 2 flirt.
the simplest things , mean the most.
compliment her and be nice to her, but not like creepy nice, ya know?
Maybe get off the computer, get a life and actually talk to them.





Say they have nice boobs.
your a guy right well if you have girls as friends then don't be coz if you are friends with them they wont understand you are flirting so first move away from friendship then like always start a convo but not as friends and soon you will get her number and then ask her stuff and like dates
News Flash most girls dont flirt, and dont like flirting.

If you like a girl she will notice if you often give her a smile every now and then,

or Maybe just talk like a normal human being towards them, whats the worse that could happen?
Don't be a player. Be smart, be funny. Listen when she talks. Don't grope. Look in her eyes, no matter what kind of shirt she's wearing. Open the conversation with something she can follow-up on. If she walks away she's not interested. If she answers, there's your chance.



If you treat the girl like a live, breathing, intelligent human being instead of an automated sex-doll and/or some strange and vaguely repulsive alien, you'll get much further ahead.
omg

i do this all the time. it lands me heaps of chics.

I go up to a chic that i think is hot.

and i squeeze there ***. then when i get there attention i say:

Hey baby do u wanna fcuk while u say this. look at there boobs and slowly look up towards there face. they like this and they especially like it when u squeeze there ***.

ive been doing this for ages and i've fcuked around 40 chics and im only 19.

How to flirt with girls?

if yoiur wondering HOW to flirt with girls start with a basic... compliment them and then compliment again... mabey a few times and never act nervous... you could evn do something weird like bumping into the girl on purpose and you can ask her what kind of music or food she likes and sometimes even if you dont like it say u do b cuz u will learn to like it when your with that girl...How to flirt with girls?
how to speak grammar?

Should I reconsider?

Last year my friends and I were went to see the Departed after the movie a guy from school came up to me and asked how I liked the movie, I told him my opinion and then he asked if I would up for another movie right then. I asked him what was going on and he said that he was asking me out to a movie. I felt really nervous because I was dating someone else. My friends started laughing behind me because this guy was two inches shorter than me. I said that I had somewhere else to be and would call him later.



When I got home an hour later he had called his friends and said that I said YES!, and now i was his girlfriend. I called him up and told him exactly how I felt about his big mouth and hung up. Well this year he came in three inches taller than me and with this really hot hair and he figured out how to flirt with girls.He asked me out today



The only problem is, my best friend has liked him for two weeks, should I go for it and go out with him or stay with my friend?

HELP!!!!!Should I reconsider?
If he was dating your friend you should leave him alone. However he asked you out, not her. Go ahead and have fun.Should I reconsider?
You're still dating someone else?

Girl problems help, please, and thank you?

okay I'm a fourteen year old boy attending high school and, for the past like 5, to 6 days this nice girl has been flirting with me at first it started with her asking me the answers to questions when her friends already had the answers now, she some times sits with me when my seating partner is not there or behind me when she is and occasionally she will come over and talk with her to get my attention.



If I was like one of you i would have had that from time but i (sad to say) don't know how to flirt with girls all my life have been fixated on my grades I'm at a 87% average, and never really thought about girls for the matter, and I would really appreciate the help thanks.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Girls like to be complimented on little things. I am 15 and have had many guys flirt with me. Here are things that work. Compliment little things, Such as nail polish. We love to be complimented on our eyes. Also, a cute way of flirting is to say something like ';Wow you have small hands'; and hold your hand up for a 'hand comparison'. It's cute and makes you guys closer. Tell her that she smells nice. We love that. Never mention weight, height, strength, etc. We are often offended by those types of comments. make fun of yourself. And tease her on little things. Like if she is blonde, make a blonde comment. But then say ';Just kidding.'; Come off as cool and relaxed. Girls like a guys that is confident. Since you have never flirted before, This may be hard. But stay strong. There are toms of ways to flirt online. Just look them up. Best of luck.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Just be yourself... obviously the boy the girl see's is what she likes. so don't change just to try to get her to like you.
Don't assume she's flirting with you. that's a bad idea
talk to her and relax

the more normal you act the better things will be
dude, just talk to her. listen to her, be yourself she. she is intrested in you so you dont have to act ';cool';. get to know this girl more then when YOU are ready just ask her out to movies or hang. for a (not so much) first date invite her to come with you and your friends to the movies or park or mall ect... trust me, the #1 thing is to just be calm and be yourself.
Dear Brother,

since u said ur age is 14 %26amp; u r getting 87%,this is not a right age to think or discuss anything abt a girl.my suggession is concentrate more on studies only,since ur age is less u have a bright feauture.

decide a goal and go towards that

Where should I take a girl for a first date?

Now, it's not really a ';date,'; it's more like ';hanging out as friends'; because she's not ready to date anyone, but she likes me. I always had a good time with my friends bowling at the bowling alley, and there's food sold there. Should we go there to ';hang out';? It would be fun, we would be able to talk (I finally talked to her!!), and we could eat there. Is this a good idea or should we go somewhere else? Any tips are good, especially from guys who dated more than once because I'm a guy. I want to date the girl, so how should I act? Someone told me ';Act flirty';, but I don't know how to. Can someone tell me how to flirt with girls?Where should I take a girl for a first date?
dont think about flirting, just let it happen cause it is programmed in our brains to happen. my friend was thinking about it once and when i saw, i was laughing my a** off. and another option i do is maybe go play putt-putt and then go bowl, cause when u play putt-putt, u get 2 teach her how 2 putt ;). its basically a score, and if she likes u she will let u.

What am I supposed to do with this?

I used to be shy. Just came out of it fully this year, but that's not really the problem. I tried getting onto the dating scene but it really didn't work. No, it really didn't.



The first girl I tried with really encouraged me, after a while asked me if I was going to the game that night. Now that I think about it she probably gave me the courage to move on. But at the game, I found out she had a boyfriend of two years (wow, leading me on ftw)



The next girl encouraged me, too, but then one day she just stopped talking me and sent me a message over myspace that she wanted me to leave her alone (am I reading them wrong? Apparently.)



The next girl? Pft, straight up called me a stalker to my face and walked away.

Before I said a word.



Next one told me I was wierd and gave me advice on how to flirt with girls better, but it's not like it was anything I hadn't read here or there... I just couldn't do it right, apparently. She didn't want a relationship, and now she's my friend, but I think it's more out of pity than anything.



One of my friends (a guy), told me I needed to work on my social skills. All I did was talk to them. I'm telling you right now, I didn't do anything out of the ordinary. I would walk by them in the hall and say hi, every now and then ask them how their day was, it's not like I was complimenting them every three seconds. But still, it's obvious I did something wrong.



I already know I've failed, a lot. But how am I supposed to ';work on my social skills'; without trying? I don't want to try because I don't want to **** up any more chances. I don't really want to flirt with girls I don't like because it would just be cold. Gah...What am I supposed to do with this?
Take a deep breath. Your doing fine. Just be yourself, no matter what! And do not try too hard. If the girl loses interest, well that's not your fault. The two of you just aren't compatible and when girls see that they back off. Unfortunately there are a lot if immature girls who can be rude and cruel. Ignore them and move on. Be more selective before you ';go after'; a girl with your heart on your sleeve. Concentrate on being friends with a girl before you just jump into the dating thing. Once you are more comfortable interacting with girls in general on that level, I'm sure things will go better for you during the next step. It takes practice. But above all, be who you really are, always. Don't try to impress them. Let them get to know you and if they are interested, I'm sure you'll be able to pick up on the signs. Be patient. This isn't a race.What am I supposed to do with this?
Your not shy anymore and thats good. Now you gotta work on ur approach. Dont jump her and start asking her out. Get to know her. Ask her what she's into and stuff like that. DO NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS, THINKING SHE'LL BE LIKE THE OTHERS!!! Then once she becomes more comfortable with you, ask her if she wants to hang out or something. When it comes to talking and asking out girls its all about Confidence and Approach. good luck
stop trying so hard. Get some self help books about the opposite sex. Remake yourself. Have faith in your self above all. Do not let a few immature girls affect your sense of self worth.

How to flirt with girls?

How can i flirt with chicks at my school. any tips?

P.S. there is a new girl at my school that i really like. how can i get her to like me before she meets someone else?How to flirt with girls?
If I were the new girl I would want someone to talk to not just someone to say hi and bye to. First just have casual conversations maybe walking her to the bus or maybe during lunch. Then later on ask if she wants to hang out outside of school, then ask her out you can't just ask her out if she really doesn't know you. hope this helps....How to flirt with girls?
just go talk to her!!! I am sure that she would like u if u just try and get to know her first. Good luck@,@

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I dont know what to do about it?

I have a thing for one of my friends but she has no idea. Im not a romantic type guy..i dont know how to flirt with girls and all the sweet talking and stuff.



I like her but i think she has likes one of my roomates because hes a flirty type guy and comes off as a goofy loveable type dude. only a certain people know what goes on in his mind and how much of a player he is. hes just gonna use her for a one night stand and throw her away like a piece of crap.



i dont want her to get hurt because i know she will if she pushes it with him. shes really innocent. how do i pull this off?I dont know what to do about it?
Talk to him freely and just share your views and information from both side. so that you people can know each other more. rather than keeping quite and waiting a person to know about u sound something strange.I dont know what to do about it?
WHY DO YOU LOOK LIKE ME!!!! (- Sunglasses)
then y dont u ask her out..tell her about ur feelings???

have some courage man! regrets came last u know that.
I would casually ask her out. By this I mean ask her if she would like to grab a bite to eat, a smoothie, yogurt, etc. That way, you guys would hopefully have some time alone, and you all can talk about your interests, and other things...That will at least get your foot in the door...Hope that helps! GOOD LUCK!!!

How can I get a girl to like me?

This question may sound really stupid. But I'm 18 and never had a girlfriend. I would like to know how to flirt with girls, and how a girl's body language works. How to get a girl to like me, etc. I would also like to know how to tell if a girl is a tease or not. I see most really out going and cocky guys flirt with girls before. And I don't know how they do it. I mostly see the cocky guys picking up the ';cute'; girls. For me. When it comes with a girl I like. I have a hard time talking to her or flirting with her. I don't know how to bring up a conversation. I like games and stuff but I'm afraid of bringing up a conversation like that and her thinking I'm some kind of freak or what ever. I'm pretty much of a dork.



Whats the best way to flirt with a girl? I don't want to sound like a player or anything. I just want to show her that I like her. I think it's about time for me to get a girlfriend. But I don't know how. I feel like a hopeless romantic when it comes to girls. I get rejected allot for my *shyness*. I don't know what to do. My face turns red every time I see a girl I like. It drives me mad. I'd like to share my interests with a girl that likes the same things. But its hard. :/ I sound like a noob -__-How can I get a girl to like me?
I think they need to bring back the show VH1's Pickup Artist for youHow can I get a girl to like me?
Omg its so cute what you said maybe my crush does like me to and is just a shy hopeless romantic omg IM GOING TO SAY HI TO HIM!!!!! OK AND YOU BETTER NOT BE SHY ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!
Obviously you're shy, but that's ok, you can fix it. It just need a little bit of time. The most important thing is to be confident. Girls (no exception) like men who are confident. so be confident and don't be shy.

you shouldn't plan any conversation in your mind, because then you ganna be boring. just choose something that happened that day or something like that and start talking, then the conversation goes by itself and you won't even understand that how you got there. After a while you will find out her interests and then you can find facts or news about those subjects and start the conversations by those news or facts.

Never ever at the beginning of any relationship tell the girl that you love her, because as soon as they realize that, they want to drag you around. so some how show her you like her but never admit that you love her. when the relationship goes farther, you can do that but not at the beginning.

Act normally, because girls won't think that you're a freak if you act normal and expose your ideas and interests. When you act abnormal, because you're shy or you like her, they think that you are freak.

Girls look for challenge, so don't be easy on them. if they ask your opinion about something don't say ';I dk'; or ';You decide'; or something like that. express your opinion with out being scared. or if they ask you for something don't give it to them so easily. Keep that in mind that you can't always do it, because then they ganna think that you're mean or something.

The most important thing is to not push them, because if you push your relationship, they ganna freak out. they go crazy and instead of liking you, they start to hate you. Get close to her slowly and then in a good situation ask her out.



GOOD LUCK! I hope I was helpful!

Is flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?

I am a 23 year old guy, I'm self-assured, confident, intelligent, randomly funny but I don't seem to know how to properly flirt with people at the right time, it seems to me like a very hard thing for me to do.



My case:



I feel sometimes that Girls do find me attractive and sometimes not. When im interested in a person I usually act myself (like as in I cannot tell(unsure) whether or not I am flirting)



The reason i asked this question is because I find very hard even at University. Also I don't really understand how to flirt with girls in high school (back then when all it is just, study, work and play..) I find that lots of guys are able to go out with girls on dates back in high school even in primary schools.



I want to know if this kind of ability is something you build up as you grow older, from parents or something everyone acquires from the time that person is born or something else?Is flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?
You probably flirt all the time and don't really noticeIs flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?
it's usually very easy... and naturall!

How do you flirt with girls

Well I know how to flirt with girls but I need some other tips on how to get a girl to really like you or something and we've been friends for a while got any tips..How do you flirt with girls
Compliments.



Many girls are insecure. . .



Don't be like every other guy and compliment physical features.



Compliment her personality, sense of humor.



Make your compliments specialized for her.



Instead of saying you like her eyes, tell her you like her blue eyes. Then it doesn't sound like a line you use on every girl.



Ask her questions, girls like to talk. . .How do you flirt with girls
You should just ask her out to dinner or maybe a movie. Then try to hang out somewhere with friends or something. Talk to her, tell her jokes and a little alcohol wouldn't hurt either you know.
treat her like a queen
Speak without talking

Feel without reaching




1. smile

2. compliment her

3. be yourself!!



Good Luck!! (:
be super nice and charming,like offer to lend her hw help or somthing,give her a dazzling smile and alot of eye contact,maybe brush your finger across her cheek or somthing!
women loves via eyes and lugs,

not via brain. remember this
Well I know how to flirt with girls but I need some other tips on how to get a girl to really like you or something and we've been friends for a while got any tips..


Walk in reeeaall slow, then lean on the wall cassually as you stare her down, but do it in a way that makes you look like you dont care either way. Then when the time is right pull her real close and tight so she know you mean bussiness and let her feel your chest so she know you been benchin. And then bring her in real smooth an show her how a man embraces.
lollll alex got it right ahhahaa

a little alcohol goes a long way



but seriously, i guess if you've been friends for a while, you both are comfortable with each other. so talk to her, like ask her if she wants to go to dinner or lunch or watever and talk to her about serious stuff... and then try to make it a regular thing and hopefully it'll end up being a more than friends thing. i guess wat im sayin is, make it a gradual thing, dont just go up to her and ask her out.



i dunno if i answered ur q lol

How to flirt with girls?

I dont know whether I am flirting,or if girls are flirting with me. I cant seem to read the signs. Mates who get girlfriends or sex in clubs just tend to talk normally to girls start groping them then they get them. I talk normally to girls and sometimes I joke around with them taking the mick out of them but I never know whether they are just being nice or just joking around. I found that girls are never really forward in terms of giving guys attention so its hard to know whether they like me or not.I would also like to know how to let a girl know that I like them without being too direct or freaking them out. Any advice reguarding this issue would be greatly appreciatedHow to flirt with girls?
Just smile at a girl you like alot, joke around, be really playful (like poking and teasing). That's basically flirting.How to flirt with girls?
i'm not experts on how to flirt with girls but i manage to get my dream girl. she's so cute! :)



i learn from this guru. well the guru teach me ';How To Approach Any Woman, Anywhere And Know Exactly What To Say To Get Her To Give You Her Number And Go On A Date With You';



try it and you'll love it
all girls are different

i think, as a girl, a guy really gets my attention by just simply talking to me..

like making an effort to actually talk to me and have confidence

it really gets me thinking after a while

How to flirt with girls?

im 14 yrs old and i only want to talk to girls my age. you can say all you want that im too young for this stuff, but theres not that much time left for people like me to meet kinds of girls i want to meet. i dont want a girl that you would meet in a bar OR always stuck up in a church. school is the only place i can see a lot of people with a nice blend of decensy and fun loving. so any tips? and how do i talk on a phone for half an hour or longer with someone i havent already made good friends with?How to flirt with girls?
the best way to get close to a girl is to know more about her. So, ask questions and wait for the answers. Don't talk about yourself until she asks. Here and there compliment her on her dressing (not her body).

Denisp.How to flirt with girls?
hey im 16 and im a senior at high school, we are not that far apart and trust me your 14 there is still a long way from you meeting a girl in a bar or anything and church tell you the truth from personal experience girls from church are much better a little stuck up but hey if you wan wifey material go to church, but than again your young.

about your prob well just make friends with a girl who you like dont just flirt first than become friends later no first freinds talk to her listen to her. but atention to her comment back. it is easy i know that the first couple minutes or days are difficult but than you will be your self with that person and it will just be really easy.


talk to them about movies and music n try to exchange your download music with them thats all i can say for a 14 years old.
to keep a conversation going ask questions about the other person and find out what you have in common with them. Eventually they will say something you can relate to and you can talk about that topic.
It kinda just depends. Usually a good female friend leads to a crush..

It all depends on the person..some girls I just can't really talk to, but some girls I can just talk forever with. When I was about 13/14 I had a friend named brittney, just a friend but we could talk non stop for HOURS....if your really slick that helps, but it depends on you, and the person your trying to talk to.
here's what you gotta do!!!! TRUST ME.



okay at school, if you want the chicks to be all over you, stare at 3 certain girls (during classes). look her in the eye and dont smile. make yourself look intimidating as POSSIBLE. if she looks back, just keep staring. wear your pants really low so you can see your boxers and wear over-sized shirts. get some sunglasses and wear them 24/7. (except during classes) Never, ever, EVER smile at anyone, keep a STRAIGHT face. go to friday night football games and find one random girl to stare at. during the whole game. keep staring at her constantly. when you see her leaving, go up and ask for her number. if she says no, grab her by the shoulders, stare into her eyes and strongly say ';give. it. to. me.'; If she continues to refuse, grab her towrds you and hold her close. Whisper in her ear, ';Sweetie, you dont want me to hurt you, do you?'; by then, she will give you her number and be your girlfriend. now that you have a girlfriend, you need to get another girlfriend. at school, go up to random girls during classes and say ';oh daaaaang, i wanna get with THAT!'; and by then, you'll have a few more girlfriends. this makes you a player. and EVERY girl wants to date a player. Now, every weekend, crash a party and bring along one of your girlfriends. Keep a straight face, and stare at just one girl at the party. Ditch your girlfriend and go up to the other girl and ask for her number. Then take her to a quiet bedroom and get her to get with you. Now you have another girlfriend. in at least a month, every girl will be crawling all over you!!! ;)
Looks aren't important. Look at me. Really look at me. I am ugly as @#$, by traditional standards, but I still get with women. Aren't you curious as to how that's possible?

There are three rules when it comes talking to women. Number 1 ask questions, don't say anything, because women, all they wanna do is talk about themselves so you're just gonna let them do that. 2 be cool and 3 be kind of a dick. Look be like David Caruso in ';Jade';.
flirting with girls isn't easy. I'm a girl and guys can be really misleading. although I'm 15, and interested in a 17 year old, its the same situation. one piece of advice, if you like her, don't beat around the bush and act like you don't like her. Also, you shouldn't talk on the phone for 30 minutes, because the next time you talk to her you might have ruled out everything to talk about. But when you want to flirt, all I can say is be cute, at this time girls want guys to be cute, ask her to a dance in a creative way, kiss her at perfect moments. and never, ever, ever, show PDA. it shows you have some dignity about you. hope this helps, and good luck snagging the girl.
i was exactly the same when i was that age.... and it's not so much something that you can learn but the nervous feelings you get when you first meet someone and want to get to know them make it so much more fun... about talking on the phone first try and find things that you both have in common or find interesting... you don't have set guide lines you have to follow when talking to a girl a simple conversation is the best way... so she can find out about you too... to get to know each other...



but with the flirt thing... it's not something you sort of noticably do... well i know with me it just sort of happens...



hope i helped...

How to flirt with girls?

Is just smiling and making them laugh all you can really do? Then is it their job to decide?How to flirt with girls?
How to flirt with girls?

let me say How to flirt with girl?

would like 2 tell u my opinion first

1-Flirting is just abit of fun...

2-Flirting is part of human nature.

But the point is how ?

U R quit right with ur question



How to open the door to a romantic relationship ? oooh

The problem is how to know the best way to strike up a conversation is to start with a simple questions

LOOK here my example

I look at her watch and asking

How much does it cost to run an electric blanket?

look , look here othere point

Then I hv 2 smile and Use my '; body language';

with secound question

How Much Does a Free iPhone Update Cost?

waaaw , waaaw

And then if I want to share too much about myself to know

What is the difference between my onkel bedroom , and her onkel bedroom ? (important) couse if I got her answer that is sign , yes , signnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

I hv othere Steps , for next answer

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thanksHow to flirt with girls?
well thats pretty much a good started to a girl you dont know; compliment them and tease them a lil bit (not in ways that will offend them)
Buy us stuff!! hehehe



No, really. Shiny, expensive things. We like that.

Especially me.



Ignore all other answers. I'm right.





And, making them smile and laugh is all you can do. Just be consistent, sweet, and somehow try to make yourself NOT come off as another skirt chasing horn dog. That should do. Don't forget the bling.
No girls like funny guys!



If you really like the girl and they like you they will expect you to make the first move!
just be yourself!! i know from experience!! oh and FYI girls love it when a guy makes them laugh!! =)
You just got to be casual, don't put too much pressure on them in the conversation, be playful, be light %26amp; complimentary and if you feel a vibe, don't be afraid to ask for the digits. What's the worst that can happen? You didn't have her before you met and if she says no, you don't have her after- you haven't lost anything.
in my opinion making a girl laugh or smile is just enough! :)
Well making them laugh is good

and just tease with them

make them know that you are going out of your way to talk to them (but not in an over the top stalker way)
tease and mess with them
Show them your nob.
u got 2 make them laugh and smile, YES! but just stand there and make them bored NO! you gotta ask to go to her apartment for a little hot cofee and DO HER! u know a little pussy wont hurt! and bi the way...... youll thank me!!!
this might not be understandable for you or for others. but it just comes to me. making a girl laugh is one thing but trying to flirt with her is another. i learn from experience.

Make her feel like you want her, just dont try this to all girls, they might form a mob and kick your A*S. Do more than make her laugh, sweet talk with her. but never let the girls take control of you.
If the girl is already your GF than just talk to her about normal stuff. But if you are crushing, just smile and wave if you are normaly shy. It is ALWAYS up to the guy to make the first move. well.......Usually unless the girl is super outgoing and already likes you just use your guts and get out there ask her to a movie! Get Smart is supposed to be good!
Well, i'm a girl and here you go.





Girls LOVE it when you make them laugh, and love it when you smile a lot. But, there is more you can do. Like try complementing her. Nothing rediculous. Something like, about her smile, or how beautiful she is. Make her feel good. Don't EVER talk about past girlfriends, or about how pretty other girls are. Let her talk a lot. And if she apoligizes, say you're very interested, and let her keep talking. Flirt with her, and let her know your interested. And one other thing, be HONEST. Girls LOVE that. Tell her the truth about EVERYTHING. And also, let her know how you feel. :]]. Now end the end, it's her desicion if she likes you, but, try.







Good luck!!!!
well try an be funny even if you look dumb doing it if u make them laugh an your not funny you kno they like u. tease them an be playful. its easy just dnt be shy an im sure they will at least talk to u...
I love when guys compliment me that is always the best way to flirt!! but when guys make me laugh it is amazing!
yah just put ur self out there. u cant force sumone into likin u
basically yes! but ground rules!

1) dont scare me! that means dont be too fast, dont say anything perverted. make it kinda subtle that u like me, but sweet.

eg. guy comes and talks about exam ..he is sweet and friendly and then maybe throws in a compliment. good! but guy who comes up has his eyes everywhere but on yours , saying things like 'what can a guy like me do to get a girl like u?' or even just sitting too close and just asking questions about me then asking for my number....no no no to all of that.



2)smile a lot. and as if ure only smiling for me



3) if u touch me, make it very subtle and casual. just brush my arm to pick up a pen or lightly touch my wrist to see the time.



if a girl is smiling and laughing ure getting somewhere. then u can lay on the compliments and ask for a number.





have a real conversation. about anything! and give ur real honest opinions. ur feelings. she'll feel way closer to u and realize u have a thoughtful side aint just a playa!

How to flirt with girls?

i am a 14 year old boy. i know a girl i like and i want to know how to flirt , please anything would help TIPSHow to flirt with girls?
NO CHEESY PICK UP LINES!!



COMPLIMENTS

COMPLIMENTS

COMPLIMENTS



Be sweet and KIND!!



ADMIRE their clothes/hair wateva!!



Say they look BEAUTIFUL/HOT/PRETTY...wateva ROCKs their BOAT!!How to flirt with girls?
Young love ... I love it ....



Ok you need to write this down ..... :D



Look at her from across the room class room playground where ever you are .. Once she sees you looking at her give a little smile and then shy away and look somewhere else ... BUT look back again!



The next week put a note in her bag or locker or somewhere , where she will find it .... That is always nice .... IF you can try and sit next to her

or acorss from her so that you can do that shy flirty look .....



Once she knows you are looking at her she will have the idea that you like her ... IGNORE HER FOR THE WEEK and then do it again !



This time try and talk to her and the light brushing past her will work too ..... Or send her a txt :D tell her that you think she is looking hot!

How to flirt with girls?

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Smile and relax. Be yourself. Your body language reflects how you feel. Being relaxed will show you are confident and friendly. Otherwise, you may appear awkward, or worse, look like someone to avoid.

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Look for something positive about her to comment on when you are ready to approach her. Be genuine with your compliments and make your conversation casual, fun and witty at the same time. You will probably catch a smile or giggle from her.

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Show respect for her even as you are flirting -- that way she will not take your comments the wrong way. Don't be afraid to let her know you enjoy her company and want to get to know her.

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Step 4



Look her in the eyes when talking to her and smile.

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Step 5



Try teasing her a little bit. This is a harmless way to see if she will respond to more flirtatious behavior from you. Think of other things about her that you can compliment, such as her appearance, her dress style, her unusual purse or the color of her eyes. Try to comment in such a way that you catch her interest and also make her laugh.

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Step 6



Be genuinely interested in her and what she is interested in.

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Have fun flirting and good luck.How to flirt with girls?
What do you think flirting with girls is? If you can talk confidently with one, then you shouldn't really have a problem with flirting. If you can't talk confidently, then better start learning how to. This one girl started to talk to my bud but she left like 3mins after. I was listening to the conversation, and he basically gave out like 3 to 4 word per sentence like ';I know right'; or ';I like that too';. He didn't know how to keep a conversation to keep on going. So maybe you should learn how to keep a conversation going. I think that's a key factor in flirting with girls.How to flirt with girls?
tell her she looks nice, compliment something about her (shirt, shoes, earrings, etc.), start a convo about something she is passionate about (i.e. music), playfully tease her about something that happened in class, stick up for her, if she tells u who she likes, tell her he isnt good enough for her, ask for ';help'; with something like homework, invite her places, hug her goodbye, say something like this ';Hey (girl's name), i am trying to tell this girl i like her (even though its her), what would work for u?';

How to flirt with girls?

SAY SOMETHING LIKE DID IT HURT WHEN YOU FELL FROM HEAVEN OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT....

STARTA A CONVERSACION AND GO FROM THEIRHow to flirt with girls?
I would start off by complimenting her. Girls always like that. Not just a generic compliment, something you truly feel. Like ';you have beautiful eyes'; etc. Ask her questions, get to know her.



If it is just for hooking up then you need to make that clear. Say something like, ';I'm gonna say this as chill as I can. Do you wanna hook up.';How to flirt with girls?
flirt, don't squirt

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How to flirt with girls?

what things to do? :)



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what to like talk to them about?How to flirt with girls?
Smile, touch them in some way (NOT in a creepy way) just on the arm or back or hair, idkHow to flirt with girls?
say hi.
Well if your talking to a girl you dont no that well, play 20 questions. its a great way to get to no each other better.

And what to talk about, well most girls will talk about anything, things that happened at sckool. lol almost anything.

good luck
Hm.

Compliment them on how they look

(Preferably eyes)



Tease them



:)

From a 14 year old.
Well u can kinda cuddle with her, talk to her.



You can ask her about school, life, friends, you
Talk to her brother... Make her feel like shes the only one in the room that matters.. Compliment places on her that you know most guys dont ';look at';. Beautiful eyes, cute ears, compliment the nail job, etc
u should walk beside her in the hallway %26amp; MAKE HER LAUGH *cough* %26amp; dont talk to dat girl 25/7 cuz she'll get freaked out! but anyways ya give her a hugg and wen like tell ur best friend to say that that girl is ugly %26amp; ten u say no shes not!!!! then talk to her more k k
complement her..... tickle her (i enjoy that) how bout some pick up lines? jk dont do that! haha
tease them and poke them in the side

its cute and funny

%26amp; just talk about a common interest
just start up a convo dont act too too into her but definetly dont be shy compement her girls really like that then if she dosent seem very intrested just walk away their gonna want more if you can pull it off......good luck

How to flirt with girls?

Im a 16 year old guy

whats the best way to flirt with girls

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thanks :)How to flirt with girls?
make them laugh and talk to them nd pretend to be interested in them even if your actually not but don't become a stalker cos thats creepy and try and look cool in front of them but just not bigheaded!How to flirt with girls?
have sex, fart.
Flirt denotes enticing into bed..so...do not mention anything sexual if you really want to respect a girl...
Okay. The best and most effective way is to play it **** cool. If you have that little feeling that a girl likes you, then that's a great start. don't wear your heart on your sleeve. I believe in being affectionate but when flirting you need to be gleaming with confidence man. Throw them one look but 'make' sure she sees you looking. Then don't bother looking back at her. She will be wondering '; He just looked at me, he sees something he likes. I will see if he looks back again'; I promise you dude she will be screaming inside her head wondering why you looked first at her and why your not looking back. It may not sound effective but man it is. And it works! The best place to try this is in the gym where you have mirrors everywhere. so you can actually see in a Reflection when you walk past a girl if she is looking back at you. Another great way to flirt is to use direct eye contact. Practise this walking down the street with random girls as you pass them by. You have to hold the gaze until you walk past them and you will be surprised how many girls will give you eye sex. But hold the stare and don't break! Let them break first so when they look back up at you, your still looking at them. They LOVE this. Try theses tips and see how you get on. Good luck mate.

How to flirt with girls?

I've never really had a girlfriend. I've always been a little shy and can be really picky when it comes to girls. I go to this small university now and the girls here are always flirting with me and I don't really know how to flirt back and it can be a little overwhelming sometimes when there are like 3 or 4 of them and it's just me.How to flirt with girls?
Bust their balls. Tease them. Make them believe they are the ones chasing YOU. Play with them, make fun of them in a funny, charming and playful way. If they test you and tell you they don't like something about you, just be indifferent. Indifference is key. Tell them ';thanks for noticing'; and walk away or talk to someone else. BE HARD TO GET.



Have your own path. Ignore them and talk to them ON YOUR TERMS. BE DOMINANT.How to flirt with girls?
call them skanks and poke them in the eyes
Smile and give her lots of eye contact !



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just stare at their boobs and lick your lips... they will get the idea then
You don't have to flirt back, just be who you are :P



If you REALLY want to flirt, try being funny and alluding to innuendos.
just act very interested in the girl, make good eye contact, smile and laugh a lot, just...flirt, do what feels natural
haha thats kind of cute.

just have confidence and talk to them! ask them out, it'll be fun!
Lucky you! Don't worry about flirting. Just relax and be yourself. Let nature takes it's course.
just be yourself and never try to keep more than 1 with you if u try to flirt with all of em at 1 time ull get a kick in the balls so just be yourself and try to have ONLY 1 girl hope this helps
flirt at the right time, right place and right pace (';respectful flirting';)



just go with the flow
First, just relax. Second, smile a lot. Third, do some playful teasing or joking. Then, repeat.
dwwg i asked the same question

girl said talk to them

say hi

give compliments

and hug them if there willing to let you
';flirting'; dont have to be so outlandish u know .. u can be ';flirty'; by just being an awesome gentleman i.e. pulling the seat for a lady to sit on, opening the door etc but dont be too outlandish .. u dont even have to be ';touchy'; either, u can just say sweet things to girls like ';u always smell wonderful!'; or ';u have really nice eyes/ lips etc';. OR, u can ';suggest'; naughty things like ';u know i have this ';funny'; thought abt doing funny bones in our undies'; hahaha .. that last one really worked for someone i knew in college. try it! goodluck!!
Haha, don't worry, the last time a guy asked me for my phone #, I was totally oblivious and asked him why he would want to call me.

Be yourself, try not to worry and be nice. Girls hate jerks.
you look at the one you think is cute or hot or whatever guys are interested in, when you look at her, look at her with interest. like you think she is attractive.



girls love guys that is sensitive and wants to be with them.

so you gotta make that girl feel that she is special.

comment on her appearance, but not too cheezy,

say-';i like your smile,'; ';all you have to do is stand there and look pretty...';

How should I approach her?

There's this girl that lives at my buddies apartment complex who's been giving me the eye lately. We hang out near the entrance of the complex and everytime she drives by , we have a staring contest and we can't take our eyes off each other. There was one time when she parked her car I already knew she was going to go to her trunk to pretend like she was getting something giving me a good view of her behind and legs since she was in shorts that day. Afterwards she walked up the stairs and I caught her looking at me again and when I looked she quickly turned away. I've been cursed with good looks and never really had to approach girls because they usually hit me up but now I notice that as I get older, things change unlike the good old highschool days. Because of this curse I never really developed how to flirt with girls. I can't stop thinking about her. Please help.How should I approach her?
The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: ';Hi, I'm _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person.';



Approaching like this will make her instantly attracted to you because you had the courage to walk over to her with nothing but a simple conversation, which also makes you look confident about yourself. It shows her that you don't need some cheap pick up lines or something 'catchy' in order to talk to her.

It also shows her that you are decisive and that you know what you want and also that you try to get what you want. In this case, getting to know her.



Anyway I know that approaching like this is kinda hard if you haven't done that before. But trust me it works every time.



If you approach like this the girl will have no reason to reject you because all you ask from her is to meet her. You didn't asked her out yet, or you didn't asked her to have sex with you. It's just a simple name exchanging and socializing.



After that simple sentence you can continue the conversation. The important thing is the opening. The ice-breaker. Later on just go with the flow.



I hope my answer helped and if you want to know more about how to approach, how to act and how to seduce women visit the source page below.How should I approach her?
Most girls, like me, like it if you make a move and start complimenting and chatting with her upfront x

I need help. Some tips please.?

I need some tips how to flirt with girls, dont say be ur self.



Go through the steps to say I searched it but it did not work.



So I want to know how to start, and give me all the information.





Bonus question



Why girls hate us guys that we think about girls body?



let's face it, u girls think about boys body like 24 hrs. Lol. Mostly teenagers do.



Why do u teenagers dont know the true love? I mean most of u have sex before marriage. its not good.





if u know who is john Cena, then who u like John Cena or Randy Orton?



I like Randy Orton, John Cena makes me fall a sleep he has bad character on movies.





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Isn't it Nadia Bjorlin looks cute?



She has great eyes, and I feel like touching her abs. LolI need help. Some tips please.?
1. i think you should be a gentleman. that always attracts girls and makes them think ';hmmm, maybe there are good things about him';, so she might look at your good qualities. im 16 and i find it hard to find the right guy because i think of them all as dogs who only want sex. if you show a girl otherwise- like show your personality- she might show interest in you---- even if she secretly DOES want sex!

2. no, we dont think about guys bodies 24/7. i think a lot of women look at personality and looks (sadly enough). maybe some girls do think about guys bodies - like MALE MODEL bodies! but i take it you're not a male model! so stick with the personality.

3. some teenagers wait until marriage to have sex - me as an example (and im not fat and ugly! lol) another example is Adriana Lima. though shes not a TEENAGER, she is beautiful and she is still a virgin. there are many people with enough self control and self respect to wait.

4. Randy Orton is way better!

5. Yeah, she's attractiveI need help. Some tips please.?
omg did you not want to wast points
okay, always smile at her, keep eye contact a little longer than necessary than linger on her lips and then go back up to her eyes, sit by her in like lunch and stuff, talk about things that she might be interested in, i know i like guys who actually give a damn about things. like there was a murder or something where he murdered a little kid, and, this guy jacob was like thats just disgusting, and it actually made me like him a lot more.

uhm, protect her sort of like stand up for her for example me and my friends were at the park and we were hitting eachother with wrapped up shirts and towels and stuff like that as like a joke and this guy chance, hes like a good friend of mine and he doesn't know when to stop, because he thinks of me as a friend, not a girl so he was like hitting me and i was yelling at him to stop because it started to hurt and jacob was like chance if you hit ezzy i swear ill ******* kill you, and i liked him even mro.







i hope i helped :/

How to flirt with girls?

at a party

in class

on facebookHow to flirt with girls?
be silly

ask dumb educated questions

be controlling

yet don't make waves over having Control

don't treat me like a piece

just respect that we have a Communication !!!How to flirt with girls?
find out things they like. talk about those things with them. seem interested. compliment them.
COMPLIMENTS!!! ;)
at a party/in class: just be playfully nice %26amp; polite. make her laugh.



on facebook: just don't. it may be perceived as creepy.



be yourself!
Ur the 21 year old Virgin right? Don't listen to these girls, you can't tell them what they want to hear. Just remember Never say die, quitters never prosper, and no means yes. good luck.
compliment anything new that they're wearing even if you think it's ugly.



if they get a hair cut then say ';you look amazing, did you get a hair cut?';



if they lost weight then say ';you look better than sex, have you been doing something';



girls like it when you compliment them even if you say it in a vulgar way
dont listen to anyone on here, yes girls will like if they are complimented but they wont have any respect for you. just another poor boy to use. tease them, make THEM want you.
find a common intreast. i listen to alot of music so i usally find some music we like in common. i tend to like the smarter girls so ill talk to them about class and stuff like that. and at partys its just kind of like, hooking up. so that just happens but i like smarties better so yea
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ok so you should flirt with us girls by making us laugh

and saying nice things,...DONT be mean!!

say ';your beautiful'; or compliment on her like ';hey , you have the cutest laugh i've ever heard';,................... kk



- good luck
1. Stares

2. Compliment

3. Bold comments

How to flirt with girls?

I need help flirting with girls.How to flirt with girls?
Tell them ';hey baby, why don't you go make me a sammich?'; Then, while she's off getting your sammich ready for you, take ';it'; out, and tell her ';while I eat this, why don't you eat the cockmeat sammich I have here for you?';



That ought to do it.How to flirt with girls?
Be yourself is the most important thing to do. Try to be confident and tell yourself not to be nervous. Smile at her, tell her she looks beautiful, talk to her and try to engage a playfull banter with her. Always call her beautiful or gorgeous, flatter her.

Good Luck

How can I begin flirting with a friend that I've known for a while?? See my description..?

I know that their are many websites out there that teach you how to flirt and that give you tips but that is for flirting with someone that you just met... My situation is different, I have known this girl for a while now and for a while we had a friend vibe, but after spending a lot more time with her I feel like we could be closer. How can you flirt with somebody that you have known for a while with out it being so strange? lol I hope you understand what im saying, like i know how to flirt with girls that are new to me but not girls that have been my friends for a while...



Thanks!!How can I begin flirting with a friend that I've known for a while?? See my description..?
Well I just was asked this...this past week the same thing really the guy wanted to know why the girl seemed to be getting closer as she had not accepted an earlier ask out by him and they have been friends for six years but recently she has tried something completely different. So honestly from what I have experienced from this conversation you do not want to sell any relationship short if you are feeling a lot for the girl thats fine but always remember to think what she thinks about you, and make sure to give her a chance to think it over. You can tell her how you have been feeling, and let her know that you don't want her to sell herself short if she is not feeling that same strong flirtation to her. Really to flirt only makes it harder for the friend you have especially if you have known them a while. Ask yourself would it seem rough to have a friend of yours to flirt with you and you have known her for a long time and you may not have those feelings that you want to get closer than a friend.

Take care and control

Marcello

How to get a girlfriend and keep her interested.?

well so im 19 years old, and pretty much i dont know how to flirt with girls to like me??....like what do i talk to them about??....like i hate teh awqard silnces and crap, and i suck at randomly approaching them....and pretty much i can get to the part where its like hello and how was your day crap, but after...its kinda like nothing to talk about....expecpt my depressing life, so how to i keep talking to a girl to keep her intersted in me....and btw i never had a GF before... and yes im one of thoese quiet guys who dont talk much...so if you people out there can help me....





are there certian things i have to talk about to keep women intersited in me?

how do i flirt with girls if i come across a one i like???

what do i do as a first impression?, like when i just talk up to themHow to get a girlfriend and keep her interested.?
Try being interesting rather than trying to be interesting. Get some exciting hobbies, do something with your time rather than sitting around listening to emo music and looking at computer screens. I kiteboard and just yesterday I got back from a 3 and 1/2 week trip to Greece which was amazing. Even without attention from girls I would be just fine, I enjoy life because what I bring to it, not what someone else can.How to get a girlfriend and keep her interested.?
Just practice on your grandma.
Liquor in front, poker in the back.
Learning to spell helps.
Pee in them
I know this is a cliche but, Be yourself..

Im not a bad flirt, but i usually have problems flirting with a girl that imnot sure diggs me..

to fidn out if shes into you.. talk to her at first if you can muster up the courage to approach :P get her number.. from there its easy.. i sujjest u text her.. its cheap and easier to say what u feel/flirt.. flirting with her on a text will let u knw if she likes you (wether she flirts back or not)

as for keeping her interested.. try not to get her upset.. and keep sexual activity high..try to make her laff ;) good luck

Is flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?

I am a 23 year old guy, I'm self-assured, confident, intelligent, randomly funny but I don't seem to know how to properly flirt with people at the right time, it seems to me like a very hard thing for me to do.



My case:



I feel sometimes that Girls do find me attractive and sometimes not. When im interested in a person I usually act myself (like as in I cannot tell(unsure) whether or not I am flirting)



The reason i asked this question is because I find very hard even at University. Also I don't really understand how to flirt with girls in high school (back then when all it is just, study, work and play..) I find that lots of guys are able to go out with girls on dates back in high school even in primary schools.



I want to know if this kind of ability is something you build up as you grow older, from parents or something everyone acquires from the time that person is born or something else?Is flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?
If you're a people person, and you understand emotion, response, conversation, you should be able to pick up flirting. It's pretty easy. Appeal to primal instincts. In a non-cheesy way you have to say what people want to hear.Is flirting supposed to be natural or an acquired ability?
It's all natural it's nothing but Body Language

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Lesbian in High School...?

I'm a lesbian in high school. I know that. My closest friends no that. What's my problem? Here's my problem. I go to a catholic school. Most of the people I know are anti-gay. I know three people who are, but they're guys. This doesn't help much.



I'm shy and I don't know how to flirt with girls. I don't know how to ask without asking, if you know what I mean. I'm so scared of getting the ';ew'; response. It's happened a few times before, but I feel kind of desperate. If not for a love interest, at least for a friend who gets it. I don't know anyone who is a lesbian and I don't know how to tell someone else, ask someone else, tell if someone else is, or flirt. Help!Lesbian in High School...?
Getting a date is not the most important thing to be trying to do at school.Lesbian in High School...?
Be careful, or you'll get ';healed'; from your unholy gayness. A lesbian I know was raised Catholic, tried to be a catholic lesbian, and turned her back on it after she found out what hypocrites they were. They preached love and tolerance, but openly hated her for being gay.



Since you're stuck there, be careful who you come out to until graduation. After that you are free to be whoever you want to be, and the pool of prospective partners will increase exponentially.



Sorry that doesn't help right now, but you're in one of the worst case scenarios school-wise for any gay youth. Just be true to who you are no matter what happens.
wwe all ways say we love lesbians.
you should get out of the cathlic school because religion is bad.
God damit lesbians are so hot... You have to build new relationships with girls and hopefully one day you will end up waking up next to each other with nothing on but your socks
Maybe you shouldnt be trying to find another lesbian at your school. Your secret will get out and you will get more than ';ew's'; from the other kids. Focus on school when you're there and then outside of school maybe try to find someone to connect with.
i don't understand why people hate gays i'm not gay or lesb but it is just so mean when people hate u cause your lesb it is so rude you know.
You might just want to make friends FIRST but you know that.

I would sooner see you with a guy for m%26amp;m but your not old enough and you still can mess your life up as well as his. Maybe thoes gay guys have a sister who you could make friends with.

Stay out of trouble and keep it clean.
see if your school has an.. acceptance club. like at our school we have one called R.E.A.C.H which basically is just about spreading acceptance and understanding. or maybe you can ask your parents if you could go to a public school next year, because i know what you mean, my friends who are really religious are all homophobic. also, dont approach a girl expecting a relationship out of it, go into it as a friendship and thats it. i always always find that no long lasting relationship comes from the guys i immediately want to date. ohh and this might be a terrible idea, but you could go onto myspace and find lesbians (not to go out with but just to talk to. so you dont feel so alone). good luck and know that your not alone! you just might not realize it.
my advice is not to worry about looking at school.. go out to public places, malls, clubs, go with your friends who are cool with ya.. everything that happens at school will crumble.. theres too many eyes.. go to myspace and look at girls' profiles.. good luck.. it'll get better once your out of high school and in college..!!
I'm a lesbian in high school as well. I don't go to a Catholic school, but I do live in a small town so pretty much everyone is anti-gay.



If you're looking for someone who understands, just become friends with the people who seem to be less closed-minded than the general population and then tell them once you've really bonded with them. If this person is a girl, it might turn out that they're gay too, and you could start a relationship with them if you feel a connection.
You should act like a normal person when finding a date. When I'm interested in other gurls, I try to show it.



1) Open doors for her (it really does work)

2) Try and take a seat next her, as much as you can

3) When you do, press your knee against hers`, if she pulls away, sorry, but if she doesn't, then that's good.

4) ALWAYS compliment her on how she looks, gurls really like that



And for the 'ew' response, that's not always the case. And when it is, it's not that bad. Try to be proud that your a lesbian. You'll feel a lot more better.

I go to a Christian school, and everyone knows I'm a lesbian. Their cool about, some people even admire me for it.



I hope this all works out for you, `cause I know what it's like
ia m a bi.. my lo9ve i can help you be yourself and dont care how poeple think of what you do or what you are i go to a public skool and me and my gf are holding hands and not giving a sh!t at all... you sould be prond of you sexuallaty i am and always will be i understand where you come form at the being it was hard for me to do stnd it and be pround of it hunny... go for it lovergal...this is a friend of mine who wants to say something,( not gay but good advice!!)

Hello Dudette!! Listen im not gay but i hear your pain...dont be afraid to show your love to someone be your self this is the true key to your personality, dont let others discriminate you b/c you are lesbian that is YOUR choice no one can change that, the person who wrote the message above taught me how to discover your personal being, i used to hate gay and lesbian relationships...then i found out that 2-3 friend were bi- then i relized that being gay or lesbian aint gonna change a thing about you. sure i still hang out with them and im sure that will continue but seriously dont be afraid to show your affection with another girl, and by god dont let the catholics bomb you with thier beliefs!!! believe me i went to a catholic school before. it sucks!!

keep it strong, go for what you think is kool with you and go 4 it!!

Peace out, sister!!!

SPAWN-023, and Hannibal Lecter (AKA CHICKA, TOP)
Its can be frustrating in your situation, but there is help. If you look on the internet and find out about your local LGBT association, I am sure there you'll find other girls that you could interact with who could also be facing the same thing as you.
what is it like 1 in 10 high school students are gay? so get a group of 20 girls and most likely another one is a lesbian too.
Gosh, I know what you're going through. If I were you, I would try to network through the close friends you say already know about your sexuality.

I suck at flirting!!!!! Help Me!!!!?

i hardly ever flirt. so i dont really know how. i dont wanna look stupid. any tips on how to flirt with girls???? (btw im 13 and ima guy.) (go figure?!)I suck at flirting!!!!! Help Me!!!!?
Oh sweet 13. Don't worry guy, your but a baby in the dating world, practice makes perfect.



Tease girls a little. Don't insult but playfully tease them. Smile and be confident. Pay attention to the guys that are good with the ladies and emulate them.I suck at flirting!!!!! Help Me!!!!?
practice makes perfect ;)
Your 13 dude chill out.
say hello.



go from there. It takes practice, it;s a numbers game.
flirting is nothing more than talking to a girl but with intentions of going out with her or hooking up with her, so just be yourself and act extra kind to a girl and there you go, you've mastered flirting





P.S. dont rush to have sex, i lost my virginity at 13, and i regret it now, its not worth it to ';do it'; at such a young age
I'm sorry....i suck at helping..... Help Me!!!?
That's the girls job. You just need to know how to pickup on it when she does. For a guy it's allot easier. Just tell her you like her. Period. Takes guts but worked for me when I was your age. Guys in school called me a stud (far from the truth because I was afraid out of my mind each time I did it.) but it usually worked. Believe it or not, girls actually like that. They are more afraid of you than you are of them.
crack a few jokes every now and then

I've accepted?

i've finally accepted the fact that im bi. before i was very ashamed and wanted to hide that part of me. but now i realize i can't hide who i am and i can't be ashamed and now that i've finally accepted myself for who i am....i really want to get a girlfriend. the problem is i dunno how to flirt with girls and like know if they are being nice or actually like me. and everytime i like a girl i act like a retard. its kinda weird when i like a guy i can act myself and get him within like a week. but when i really like a girl i just act super ridiculous and totally humiliate myself. it sucks ***. how can i like learn to flirt and be normal around girls like i am around guys? and i'd really like to talk to someone who's bi like me. so you guys can help me out and like guide me through. it'd be cool. but anywho. how can i get a girlfriend? and how do i flirtI've accepted?
Just because she cant flirt with girls doesn't mean she isn't Bi. She is new to being bi, so it can be hard.



Basically just flirt with girls like you do with guys. There isn't a huge difference between flirting with genders. For example when your talking mention that she looks pretty..i mean that's pretty simple.



I'm bi and I flirt the same way I do with guys. Of course its sometimes hard to even know when a girl is Bi because at times there just being nice...or dont get the hint your bi. Best bet is to go to Bars that are for Bi people, Or lesbians. That way you know for sure your talking to someone who would interested in that sort of way.I've accepted?
Has it occurred to you that you aren't actually bi, if you can flirt with boys but not girls?
congratulations! I'm so happy for you that you decided to embrace yourself rather than deny it. Don't feel so desperate for a girlfriend. YOu have to remember that only other bi people and lesbians are game, and not all will tell you if they are. If you know 100% another girl likes girls, then go for it. Or go to a gay bar. Though it's mostly men, they can connect you to possible partners.

As far as flirting goes: How would you like to be flirted with? If you know of one time a guy hit on you and made you uncomfortable, try with all your power not to act like he acts. Don't worry, it'll happen. Just always keep a look out.
the best place to find a girlfriend or friends with similar intrest is at night club or bar. but yet another safer place is Myspace.com. do a ppl search with lesbian or bi woman and you will find alot of girls in your area. it can go as far as you want. even if you just want to keep it online friends for now until you feel comftable then go fir it.



it took me alot to accept myself as a bisxual woman, then life twisted on my and made me realized i was a lesbian. but that is another story. good luck. i have met alot of great friends online.
youre on the right track . confidence will come . start meeting some bi and lesbian girls so you wont have to guess how they feel .

OK..so what about the opposite?

so, someone just asked how to flirt with girls...now what if your a girl and a guy flirts with you, wha do u do back? most girls just smile, others play hard to get. how do u flirt back?OK..so what about the opposite?
just be touchy feely and gushy mushy. got it?OK..so what about the opposite?
Be firednly but not too..you don't want to throw yourself at them, but at the same time show that you are interested.
i will give them a though time but later i will succumb.
Friendly, smiling and very sweet. But if I'm really interested, I like to get a guy going with jokes. There is usually alot of touching involved too.
you just do
just be yourself, if you want to make a flirting comment back then do it,..if you don't then just be friendly and avoid it,...any decent guy will get the message.

Flirting tips?

im a dude and i wanna kno how to flirt with girls better..Flirting tips?
Get to know them first, gently tease them about things. Compliment them and if you're comfortable, body contact is always good (holding hands, hugging, arm around the shoulder)Flirting tips?
make eye contact for a little too long(unless they seem freaked out), touch their arm for a split second, etc.

good luck!
Pick on them like poke her in the side *girls LOVE this*, play with her hair...like if she got it cut or redone..this lets her know that you noticed and that you think it looks good on her..and glance at her...and if she lo9ks back then smile =) this means you where looking at her...and not any other girl.

Flirting tips?

i try my best but i honestly don't really know how to flirt with girls like i'll smile make eye contact but thats pretty much it... i need help plzFlirting tips?
Joke and be yourself, occasionally make a cool comment or sometimes say something teasing. Check out one of my questions for more.



http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Flirting tips?
well i go crazy when my boyfrd makes this cool noise with his mouth and he winks at me and when he smiles at me and when helifts his eyebrown up and down when i walk by
okay, well do you talk to girls? talk to them...ask questions... for some reason women always want to talk about them themselves... if u like the girl well talk to her ask her to some place like the movies...make her laugh...act silly yet adorable... be urself...don't try to be someone your not ...im sorry if it didn't really help...but just be your self! :D

I need some advise?

What are some tips on how to flirt with girls. I'm not very good at it and am a little shy, but am trying to not let this affect me. If you could please give me some ideas it would be greatly appreaciated.I need some advise?
smiling, but don't over-do it.

say something witty, or be funny.I need some advise?
Just compliment them.
girls love being touched

not like the wrong way

but like putting your arm around a girl or hugging her

it means your comfortable with girls

its a turn on to me at least

then once your going out with a girl you can touch her more
just talk about common things, like school and events and stuff. occasionally compliment her and there you go flirting is simple as that
Try to figure out what the girl likes as a characterists of a guy and change yourself to be that guy but still try to be your self. Try to be more active and start converstations with girls and hang with them sometimes.
why not try looking at the girl u want to flirt with,n give her a big smile,n i hope u brush ure teeth,cause any girl loves a big clean smile,or stick ure tounge out at her,n then give that big smile..good luck
First of all, be comfortable with yourself. Usually if you be yourself and not an actor then ladies will like you. Just think of an icebreaker like a joke or a compliment to her. Then strike up a conversation to see what she's into. Once you know what she's into, then you know how to approach. It works for me.
Smile+Humor and compliments (but not too many!) that's my opinion :) Goodluck with it

Flirting Question?

How to Flirt with girls? What is the best ways?Flirting Question?
make her laugh. talk to her. when shes talking LISTEN. eye contact, dont look around when your talking, she'll think youre distracted and trying to get away from her.Flirting Question?
humor always gets to me but i dont like corny humor or perv humor..it needs to be natural....
I contact. Maybe raise your eye brow %26amp; wink at her.

Or for a cute inocent flirt, just wave at her when she looks over at you.

How to flirt with girls?

I have no Idea what I'm doing...How to flirt with girls?
you gotta be nicee... complements make girls laugh..alot... you knoe smile at them but dont smile or stare too much..cuz then shell think your a stalker..How to flirt with girls?
Compliment them shamelessly ;)

Just shows you ain't scared to admit their booty looks good.

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How to flirt with girls?

how do you flirt with a girl you like and what response would you be looking for to see if she likes you [plz help???????????How to flirt with girls?
Give her a goose.How to flirt with girls?
See if she smiles at yuou when yo smile at her
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sorry, i never did, they flirt with me and i pick one
unless your an alpha male or really rich...theres no Point they only want those two things in a man
From the James May school of flirting start with 'Hello'
pull her hair call her names :-D
whatever you do, DONT PLAY FOOTSIE

not all girls like feet

in fact some are terrified of them

and being that boys have nastier feet than girls that would be a major turn off
well if a girl likes you'll probably be able to catch her trying to catch your eye, but some girls blush when they like someone and they speak to them...umm and if a girl laughs at what you say and smiles back at you-thats a good sign.

To flirt with a girl (if they're not the sensitive type) sometimes joking about clumsy things they've done but smile in a joking way-dont worry she might only punch you for this, but its a good sign!

Complimenting her and smiling at her heaps is always good flirting and irresistable.
Just joke around with her. Girls love humor. When I like a guy I normally shy away from him a little so if that happens she may just have realized she likes you. Some on the other hand start flirting with you. Once you realize she likes you, ask her out or she will give up on you.
Start talking to her and ask for some advice. That's what a boy did to me and i gave him some advice. Or you can ask her if you can trust her with a secret. Just do something very small and then make it bigger, that's how most girls like it. But if she is a loud sorta upfront person then it might be better to accidentally touch her hand or something like that



Hope this has helped.
Establishing rapport is a big part of flirting. This can be done by a technique called pacing.



Some things you can do include:



-Mirroring her stance (doesn't have to be exactly)

-Giving her the same amount of eye contact which she gives you

-Mimicking her breathing pattern (for example, breathing at a similar pace and incorporating the same aspects into your breathing as she uses, like sighs. Remember - don't just copycat her. This will be too noticeable. Be subtle)

-Matching gestures - if her gestures are big and flamboyant, you can make your gesturing more flamboyant as well.

-Match tone of voice and speed. If she is speaking quietly, soften your voice. If she is speaking loudly, you can increase your volume. Try to match the speed which she is talking at.



(remember, this has to be SUBTLE, do NOT just copy her the entire time gesture for gesture and pose for pose.)



You will feel if you have established rapport - the conversation will feel free-flowing and comfortable. When you feel confident that there is some level of trust and rapport there, you can then stop matching her and instead LEAD her. For example, you can start giving her the amount of eye contact YOU want and SHE will start to automatically match YOU without even consciously thinking about it.



One way to test if a girl is attracted to you is to lean back SLIGHTLY, so that it is not overly noticeable. If she leans forward toward you, it signals interest.



Hope this helps.
well depends on the girl really just treat her politely (but not like overdoing it) if she looks a u look and smile bac get close to her as a friend and u might find other things she likes also come up behind her and tickle her sides she may seem upset at first but later she'll probably tell all her friends about it
go up to her and say her radiance lights up the room and you couldn't help but notice her. Then ask her some regular questions like say your in a bar and you say you come here often? and start from there. If she smiles and laughs at your jokes or just smiles she is into you. This only works if you are at least alright looking.
CONFIDENCE is sexy.

not c0ckiness but confidence
Squint your eyes and say ';I love you long time';.

Flirting tips???

can u give me any tips on how to flirt with girlsFlirting tips???
do that stare thing where u look at her till she notices and then when she does turn away and if u really want to get a guirl just go up to her and talk to her and stare at her in the eyes while u are talking to her oh and get close to her while u are hope that helpsFlirting tips???
I go for a confident slightly arrogant guy any time. One that looks like he know's what he's dooing will get the girls queueing!
just say hi
always keep a rolled up sock in yoru pants, every minute or so, adjust it
just be yourself. Have the courage to go up to a girl and try to have a conversation. Just start off with something short and to the point like ';how are you doing?'; If she brushes you off then taht's cool just take a step back look around the room and find someone that's look like a really cool person and try again. Don't feel bad if it doesn't work the first couple of times. As you keeping trying you'll get better and will be able to approach girls very easily. But remember just be yourself
Read a book...My friends and I love to see smart guys...that read really interesting books then talk about them...Brains are sexy, and inteligent conversation is very flirtatous...

How to flirt with girls?

I really dont know how to flirt with girls, i get nervious rite away and sort of just stay pretty quiet. Ive nevery really flirted with girls before and only had a girlfriend once in jr high but that was with one of my best friend( The way we got together was by when one of her friends saw us walking together and asked her if we were together and she said yes and i was pretty much shocked because didnt know she liked me in that way and was excited because she was cute) But after that we just decided to stay friends but anyhow, im in highschool and dont know how to flirt with girls, way too shy. Im not ugly or anything because lots of times random girls come up to me or scream to me that im hot. Makes me pretty confident that i have a chance of flirting without getting rejected but at the same time im too shy and dont really know how to. Yesterday at the mall this cute chick walked up to me and was asking me about my gauges and how cool they looked, i have 9/16 gauges. She was sort of started a conversation and i could tell sort of flirting with me but i chucked up and started to get nerviouse and sort of walked away (._.), any advice pleaseHow to flirt with girls?
Aww how cute ! well i think from my own experience, i LOVE guys who are confindent. Even if ur shy dont let the girl know that. play it up. once you have her attention and shes showin a lil interest start talkin to her and jus be like a friend. Another thing girl fall for is a sensative guy. get into a deep conversation and tell her a sasd story of somethin that happened in ur past. This will hook her right away. this will make her think she knows you, and will bring her closer to u. take her out and do something fun. if u have a favorite place take her to it. tell her youve never taken a girl there before. this'll make her feel special. at the end of the day give her a hug and mayb a peck on the cheak. DO NOT KISS HER YET ! lol. this will b a bad move on ur part. even if she trys to kiss u jus turn ur head a lil. tell her youll call her later that night or whatever, let her soak things in. a girl is different form a guy. girls will pick apart everything you sed and did all day. wen u call her she'll have so many things on her mind and garanteed a long talk all night long will seal the deal. the next day take her out agen. mayb to a nice secluded beach or park or somethin. if it looks like shes into u, and trust me you'll know, then go for it. kiss her. there you have it. if u find the right girl, by the end of one week you'll have her. GOOD LUCK !How to flirt with girls?
the onli way to conquer this problem is to have more experience, it will be hard and extremely embarrassing but you just have to talk to more girls until you feel more comfortable with them. you could get a girl without doing so, but it would be an epic fail to be with someone knowing you are nervous.
ohh boy, apparently your hot! u have no reason to be shy! just think of the girl you like a one of your really close friends youve known forever!!! :)

ask her about her weekend and what she did. or start talkin to her about a movie you wanna see. maybe she wants to see the same one! then be like hey we should see it this wweekend or something.

jsut go out and have fun!! :)
just be friendly and kind. Complement them (but nothing sexual) and just ask about THEM. Most girls love to talk, infact they could do all the talking for you! Sometimes a cute smile or wink can be a simple yet effective way of flirting..good luck
compliment the eyes. this is just the beginning but you can use it on a stranger as well as the girl you had a crush on since kindergarten. girls love it.
Dude.... Ask her questions about herself (things she likes, and has interest in) and when she responds... listen, then comment based on what you heard her say... and show interest. This is all you need, and doing it (and meaning it) will get you any girl you want.
Be polite, compliment, smile, joke (carefully), and don't be too serious.
same here

i get nervous and just walk away and end up regretting it.

How to flirt with girls?

how do you do it?...is it all compliments?...give me some insightHow to flirt with girls?
Take 2-3 shots of something good and you'll do fine :)How to flirt with girls?
It's honestly not that hard, make her laugh, be polite, and don't lie. That should do it.
Ehh . I'm a girl , And like I like it when guys make me laugh or have the same intrests .

How to flirt with girls?

I want some tips on flirting with females particularly in their early 20s. I've been told I'm a very attractive guy many times I'm just not that familiar with flirting and asking girls out. I would really like to hear about some personal experiences and suggestions. Thanks!How to flirt with girls?
smile, tease her a little, make eye contact for just a few seconds longer than you usually would, laugh at her jokes, appear genuinely interested in what she has to say...girls in their early 20s love to be kind of teased about their appearance or clothes, because it shows that you're noticing their looks, be playful and coy...MAKE HER LAUGH! someone with a good sense of humor is a huge turn-on.

Girl trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

how to flirt with girls i mean i knwo this girl likes me bcz she alkways touching me and hitting me and when i try to flirt it just goes down hill i rlly need ur help im 12 yrs old btw and shes 13Girl trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
this good answer man

go with the flow bro if u r funny then pull jokes if ur lame go figure out how to be funnyGirl trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
ur 12???

go do your hw -.-



gosh, why are people dating SO young D:
I'm 13 and trust me when I say this, just be yourself. Girls love it when a guy is just being himself. Dont act fake. She'll be falling for you in no time. (:
Just smile at her, be charming and hug her alot. I get you. Kids are never too old or young to flirt. I started flirting when I was 12 but im a girl. (: That's what we like. Oh and don't fake yourself beacuase then your just full oh $hit
dont try to flirt.....well flirt but dont try really hard.....it will come naturally....and personally i like it when guys are just themselves..........and that isnt a big age difference...............not at all.....so just go for it......

Im bi (girl) and i need some advice?

im 14 and going to be a freshman. never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. all the girls ive ever liked have been straight :[ I dont know how to flirt with girls and im a really shy person. how do i open up to a girl i like? how would i go about telling a girl that i like her? i just moved to las vegas and i dont want to feel like an idiot if i meet a girl, once i start school, and dont even know how to talk to her, you know?Im bi (girl) and i need some advice?
You are 14 with a lot of life to live. Take it slow and let it come to you. Drinking and making sexual decisions at your age isn't a good idea.Im bi (girl) and i need some advice?
well I'm straight and I've made out with lots of my girlfriends and more with some others. I'm shy too usually it's happened when drinking. So get a group of girlfriends together get to drinking and see what happens. But I don't know I love everyone when I drink and although I'm straight I love to make the first move on a girl just to show I can do it. haha Good Luck!
First, I would try and slowly find out if the person is straight or not. IF not, then try to open up by talking. Then its up to you what you do next. IF need be, ask a person straight out.
The best advice I can give is to just be open and come on just as if you were trying to pick up a guy or any other person. Girls like to be swooned too. Just be friendly and outgoing and such. You may want to make it aware that you are bi though because a lot of my lesbian friends don't go with bi's
Hi Katie, That will take time. You don't want to scare off any friends you may meet. Wait and see how things go you should be able to feel if another girl is interested in you. It will take time don't get in a hurry.

A Friend.

poppy1
First, make sure the girl is either bisexual or lesbian, at least bi curios. Nothings going to become of it if she's straight. Then just be yourself, it's natural to get nervous, things like that, but as long as your you, and using words how you want to, you'll eventually get out what you want to say.
ok first of all i read some of those answers and DON'T drink. that was bad advice.



try finding other lesbian/bi girls to like instead of straight ones who will disappoint you. if you fall in love with a straight girl, it's true there is some chance of her liking you back, but don't count on it.
so, dont worry. if she is a good friend she may accept u. bt there r some friends that dont like the same sex. bt firstly go to a gal and try to b a one of her good friends. then slowly tell ur feelings to her. or if u can presume that a gal infront u that she is also (bi) slowly kiss her.
I THINK THAT BI GIRLS ARE HOTT!!!!!!! any chance for a 3some? huh?huh? use the gaydar force young one.
you have been straight as per your own statement. what gives you the idea that every girl you come come across in LV is going to make a pass at you and you would be obliged to respond positively. why not just follow god's will and enter into a relationship with a nice boy as and when you meet one. you need not be in tearing hurry as you are only fourteen and have a long time to go. STAY STRAIGHT AND YOU WILL HAVE NO HEARTBURNS IN THE LONG RUN, DEFY GOD'S SCHEME OF THINGS AND YOU ARE ASKING FOR TROUBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

GUYS OUT THERE I NEED YOUR HELP!?

Ok... there's this guy in my school i really like, same age as me.how do i flirt! i want to know from a guy's point of view!!!



If your my best answerer i'll tell you how to flirt with girls! :PGUYS OUT THERE I NEED YOUR HELP!?
Just be nice to him and always joke around with him. Touch him in any way, maybe pushing him jokingly or somethin. If you say hi to him everyday and ask him whats up he will know that somethiin is up...which is good. So just always give him your attention and he'll get the picture. Don't play the hard to get or ignore him because that just confuses guys and gets there hopes down. hope this helpsGUYS OUT THERE I NEED YOUR HELP!?
you could try



touch him on his shoulder and if he has long hair you could play with it or ask him if you could and if he says yes then he might like you

play with your hair

ask him to carry your books

joke with him



good luck...:)
well there are many ways to flirt with a guy. being a guy i've seen a lot of different ways. You could play the dumb game and make it seem as he is soooo much smarter than you, but that could potentially make it easier for him to use you. there is the slutty approach in which you make it seem as if you are willing to do whatever he asks of you, which also is a kind of pushover tactic. However, I believe the most effective way is to just be yourself. Guys enjoy a girl who is funny, and caring. Guys like a girl who is easy going and fun to be around. And honestly, in high school or younger, all boyfriends and girlfriends are basically best best friends, because that is the basis for high school relationships. So i suppose to answer your question, just be yourself i suppose because no guy likes a fake girl. Make sure you act cute and just make it comfortable to be around each other. I hope this helps! Good Luck!!