i was in a relationship for 4 years, and i think i forgot how to flirt with girls. I use to be so good at it, but it seems so long ago. Im a decently good looking guy and i dont really have trouble finding girls. I just cant flirt with them.
Any tips.I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
1. First and foremost, listen more than you talk. This doesn't mean sit there like a dud, but ask a question, wait until she is completely done talking, then make a comment that shows you were listening. Also, don't interrupt her. Girls hate that.
2. Now then, start up a conversation with her. Speak with confidence and flow, but do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, pick-up artist, witty conversationalist, or having a profession that you do not have.
3. Show that you're secure with yourself, and be sure that when you say something, you stick to your word. You can pretend the confidence at first. It will come more naturally when she responds to you. Remember, the most important thing is to be yourself.
4. Don't overwhelm her with compliments. You should focus on going from ';nice acquaintance'; to ';intimate friend/potential lover'; smoothly. Intimate friends joke around, tease each other gently, touch each other. Start with touching her on the arm when you're laughing (don't watch the hand). See if she touches you.
5. Throw in some jokes. Humor can relieve awkwardness. If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well as confidence.
6. Sit close to her but don't breathe down her neck. Two chairs side-by-side are all that are needed. You might also be able to sit behind her and at times hit her hair a time or two. She'll turn around if she feels you, then make a joke that she finds humorous.
7. Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don't use it too much, otherwise it loses its humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.
8. Don't always be eager to start conversation with her. If she walks into class, you do not have to jump up and say ';Hi!!'; immediately, but if she sits next to you and initiates conversation, go for it!
9. Be bold but also courteous. If you can't think of anything else to say, look her in the eyes and compliment her. Don't be afraid to speak up, or you will never get anywhere!
* If she has a scarf on that you think is nice, tell her, and touch her scarf for a few seconds, and ask when and where she got it. Use an undertone鈥攇irls love it when you lean towards them and murmur a compliment.
10. Strange as it may seem, some very pretty girls have never been flirted with or have had a boyfriend because other boys are just as nervous about talking to them as you are. Don't be scared off just because you're intimidated. Sometimes these super popular girls are even lonely because they feel they have all these friends and no one wants to go out with her. So become her friend first and then move on to the flirting (don't stay her friend too long though; she may worry a relationship may ruin a friendship); this way you will not scare her off.
11. Find out her interests, and music she likes. Then talk to her about them. If you can't think of anything to talk about, use a conversation starter like ';How has your day been?'; or ';Don't you love this time of year?';. These most usually only work if you are already friends with her, and you see her on a daily basis. If you do see her on a daily basis and she mentions, for example, a vacation she is going on soon, inquire where she is going, and branch off from there; when she gets back ask her how it was. Don't be extremely serious in your inquiry, just ask it casually.
12. Be funny...Most girls agree that if a guy has a sense of humor it's attractive. Just don't joke about her weight.
13. Tease her, sure. But not about things she cares about, like saving the trees. Don't rip up paper to get laughs. She'll just end up hating your guts.
14. (Tip from a girl) Most girls want you to make the first move...And most girls like when you make her laugh.
15. (Tip from a girl) Some girls get confused when you mention something about you liking them and then you take it back and it happens all year. Go for the girl! She might like on you on the inside and she's playing hard to get. Never tell anyone else you have a crush on the girl even if it's your best friend. Secrets leak out eventually.
16. If you're going to poke her and try to be cute, do it only once or twice. Doing it much more than that will really annoy her, and she will think of you as a pest!
I got all this here : http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-With-a-Pretty-GirlI forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
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