Friday, October 22, 2010

How to flirt with girls without making it awkward or uncomfortable?

btw im 15 and im a sophmore in high school.How to flirt with girls without making it awkward or uncomfortable?
Just be yourself don't try to flirt because that usually won't work, let it come naturally. Talk to her say how pretty she looks ask what kinds of things she's into be genuine (you sound like a cutie, don't doubt yourself...and put yourself out there). No risk no reward.How to flirt with girls without making it awkward or uncomfortable?
I wouldn't try to flirt with girls. I would try talking to them.



The best way to make connections with girls is by being selective. Think about what YOU like. You don't want

someone that isn't going to share your interests.



Once you have that firmly fixed in your mind, then strike up a conversation (about anything) and once you get it going, throw some things out there that you are interested in. If she doesn't seem interested then YOU move on, don't wait for her to end the conversation.



If you will be picky about girls, only opting for girls who are interested in what you are, you will have a larger pool of girls to choose from. Girls are naturally drawn to selective males (this is why they seem to like guys who don't like them back).



If you sincerely try to have normal (not romantic) conversation with a girl about her interests and then end it if they don't coincide with yours you will attract much more attention to yourself than if you just feebly wait for any pretty girl with a pulse to fall in your lap! ;-) jk.



*Be forewarned: if you are NOT a very social person, you're probably NEVER gonna hook up with that cheerleader who looks hotter than all the other girls. If she is a very social person with above average looks and concerned with social status, then she is probably only gonna go for the ';Alpha Male'; type. Besides, she's probably not going to share your interests anyway!!



So keep your own expectations realistic!!!!
If you are nervous, it will make things awkward, if you are cool, calm, have and have confidence in yourself, voice, and bodylanguage, as in smile and don't make nervous gestures...and maybe some lines in your head that you memorized, not cheesy lines, just things like, Hey, you seem like such a shy girl cause you get no attention from guys, so I'd thought I'd come over and pay attention to you.....so what do you do for fun? etc.
okay im 15 and a sophmore in high school and i am having the same issues that u are having

i would love for a guy just to be himself around me and just flirt by starting a convo and keeping it going it shows that they really like u and wants u to be theres so yeah thats how i feel write me anytime my email is girlprincesslover@yahoo.com if u have further questions hope all goes well
always wear something you r confortable in when around girls and feel confident in urself.... make her laugh, be witty and always look into her eyes.... try leaning against something so she can't tell you are shaking and always talk to her when she is alone untill you are not shy so she has none of her friends next to her... then she will give you more attention....



please don't give up if you find some bitches along the way cause after a few good ones you will be like that guy on 'How i met ur mother' (if you know that show) lol



amy xx



p.s oh and smile, be urself and always have something in ur mind that you are going to say... practice in the mirror
well first dont let ur eyes wander look her in the eyes or she,ll think that u av lost intrest be kind but not to kind dont use cheesy opening lines like if i could put two letters in the alphabet together thay would be u and i dont talk about ur sellf to long and the most im portant thing be her friend
Don't flirt. Ask her questions, make conversation. Flirting is ALWAYS awkward. If she's not capable of a real conversation, she's not worth it.



Good Luck!
okay what i do is i know how to make anyone laugh okay thats how i flirt im so special with my technigue i can flirt with up to 4 people at once with it so if u can make a girl laugh just use that
a light touch or a tease, or just lightly pulling her hair



answer mine please;



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I would not be annoying but let girls notice you by making them laugh and complimenting their hair...that is sooo important we try soo hard on our hair. Say ';wow your hair looks great today'; its casual and doesnt make you sound gay!!
One thing that is so attractive is being funny. We like it if you can make us laugh. By the way high school is awkward is general.
Girls usually like when you make them laugh or make them feel good about themselves. But don't over do it, just be yourself and things will fall into place over time.



Good luck. =]
give her compliments. girls love it when you do that.
be friendly and i think flirting comes natural.. i will be flirting wit a guy and not even kno it

hope i helped
first step relax.man tooooo much preasure on ur self talk to her and calm down ask her what she likes to do and give her compliments on her hair,clothes or eithe one of those things man
joke be outgoing touch hit i think it works.
smiling, eye contact and being talkative will do
you have to find the womans clit
let her beat u up...always works;)

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