I'm not very good though at showing I'm interested in them and would like some tips on how to flirt with girls who may be kind of shy?How can I flirt with shy girls?
You might want to make yourself visible to her, by hanging out in similar places as her, before you end up walking up to her and introducing yourself. This may help her feel a bit more comfortable. Well, unless she sees you as a stalker. So, don't do any stalker-ish type stuff, like staring directly at her for a full minute, without blinking your eyes. Your job is to be conspicuous, confident, and approachable, not to freak her out.
Also, try smiling and laughing and stuff. People respond much better to that than an unapproachable, gruff, frowning person. Not saying that you're like that, but some shy people unfortunately default to that kind of persona, without realizing it. In many cases, shy people will think they're being approachable and smiling, when others perceive exactly the opposite.
Umm, also, you might want to skip any pickup lines, corny one-liners, etc. Introverts, as you're probably aware, don't respond too well to small talk. So, try to have something a bit deeper to talk about, such as her favorite author, if she hangs out in bookstores often, or her favorite music, if she hangs out in music stores often.
One last thing: if you can't pull off suave and confident, then cute and dorky will work just as well (and sometimes better). So, if you trip over your own feet, and everyone notices, take a bow. That's very cute and dorky. It will make all the shy girls swoon.How can I flirt with shy girls?
Just tell her I hated it when guys flirt without saying anything. Even though I'am shy I would tell you I like you simple as that.
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start off with small talk.
hm-mm, smile i guess.
give her the eyes, and one day you will have the courage to go other
lol
Be nice and friendly :)
Be really friendly. Don't make it so you're stuck to her, but be around her a lot. Ask her to hang out, things like that. Just make slow movements, then you'll find the right time to make your move.
Very carefully. Make friends first. And don't make any sudden moves.
Give them a compliment and then start talking to them. Just don't come out and be like you are so hot because then they will not like that but if you just tell them that they look really good that day then they are more likely to talk to you.
complement her lots!!
will make her bit more comfortable, nothing too intense, im sure normal flirting works too ;) good luck
be genuinely friendly
I used to be very shy, and I think someone flirting too much would have scared me, making me feel it was teasing more than flirting. I'd say just start striking up conversations, and then getting to know her more. Then when you've talked for a while, ask her casually if she'd like to go out with you on a date. I think a guy doing that when I was very shy would have been a great confidence boost!
im quite shy and never talk to the guy first
i always flirt with my eyes though so if u catch a girl looking at you give her a sweet smile
if you get eye contact a lot this is a sign she likes you so try talking to her.
if she is anything like me she'll just be waiting for you to make the first move!
good luck
just be nice and friendly.
every time you see her just look her in the eyes and smile.
try to talk to her (but don't seem clingy)
find out her intrests/hobbies.
try to make her feel comfortable around you by just being yourself and being nice and friendly. try to complementent her too.....but not too terribly much
Good luck!!
p.s. i'm a shy girl too so this is what i would want a guy to do to me. ;)
Laughter. A sense of humor and being able to make a girl laugh and smile is the best way to break the ice. But remember, be funny, but don't be a clown.
Late night phone calls are fun, and usually work. You both will feel more comfortable talking on the phone rather than in person, and the next time you see eachother you already have that conversation to go off of. :)
umm make sure u dnt come off as shy cuz then it'll be all weird. make her feel comfortable and talk to her lots. compliments, notes, txtin, hints around a little. do romantic stuff, show her that ur different.be very friendly
dude glad that u r learning
was that way my self
alright step one talk to her get to know her let her get to know u a little bit
step two ask her out to an event that there will be alot of people so that there wil be a nice casual air something like a church event or school event
step three if all goes well ask her out on a date and dont get down if she seems hesitant remember she is a little shy
step four if step three doesnt work be cool with that and continue to talk too her dont blow her off cuz she wouldnot go out with u
step five again if three did not work be there for her as a friend
step six if three DOES work and everything was good ask her out to more events and dates and ask her if she will be your gf
easy as that oh and i am usually attracted to the shy type as well
and u better treat them right or there will be reprucussions of a great magnitude
just saying its a know fact
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