I am a guy and can someone explain to me how to flirt with girls without showing too much attention?

Remember, guys: girls over analyze everything. A little tap on the back might be considered flirty. The more into you she is, the less you'll have to flirt to see results. The truth is, a lot of girls are really looking for someone ';romantic';. Even if she doesn't like you, after a few weeks of flirting she might.

Don't go too fast! If you walk up and put your arm around a girl one day without ever flirting before, she'll be in a tough spot to go out with you. If she even flirts back, her friends will think she's a slut. Gradual flirting is the best way to get a girl to go out with you.

Get to know her, think about her, be generous, considerate, and kind.

Slowly move your knee towards hers until they touch lightly. Make sure that you touch her's lightly so she doesn't think you need more room for your legs.

Touch her hand when you laugh. While you're sitting, move your chair closer to hers.

Give her hugs for no reason.

If there is a strand of hair that's falling in her face, tuck it behind her ear. (It can be incredibly romantic, and will make her melt if done right.)

Put your hands around her waist from behind. If she likes you she'll most likely lean back on you.

Once you've tried this stuff and she allows it try grabbing her by the waist and swing her around. If done correctly you'll get something out of it. (Beware: some girls are ticklish and tend to involuntarily squeal very loudly when their waists are grabbed.)

When sitting next to her at a table, always have your hand really close to hers, or even put your hand on her's ';accidentally';, if she likes you she'll smile.

If you're already friends and you're watching a movie, reading, or just talking with friends, go over and lie with your head in her lap. Let her play with your hair. If she pushes you off, just laugh. Only works if you've flirted a lot before.

When your walking next to her, push her gently off the sidewalk/path, she'll probably push you back.

If your sitting at a table/desk across from her, gently put your feet on top of hers. Play footsie, it might seem a little ';elementary school'; but girls like it. If she looks under the table and then smiles, she wanted to find out if it was you.

Tickling is a great way to flirt. Tickle her under her ribs,if she likes you, she'll grab your hands and push you back, probably smiling or laughing. If she doesn't, she probably wont grab your hands- she'll either just pull away, or slap them away.

If you want to go slower, just give her more attention. In groups of friends, it can sometimes be hard for one girl to be heard. When she speaks, pay special attention to her.

Bring her something for lunch. Nothing major. Maybe, ';Hey Jess, you're always eating *snack item*, we just got some, so I brought one for you.';

Don't be put off if she refuses a kindness. Girls are taught that refusing is polite, and she may feel like a slut if she immediately accepts something from you. If you ask a couple of times, though, eventually she'll give in.

Ask her opinion on what you're wearing.

Call her 'just to talk'.

Remember that a lot of girls (even the pretty ones) are very insecure. She might be resisting you just because she thinks you are joking. NEVER make her the object of a joke, and if someone else says something bad (even if they're teasing) about her, say, ';Dude, shut up.';I am a guy and can someone explain to me how to flirt with girls without showing too much attention?
the point in flirting is to let the person like no that u like them!

be nice to them leave sexy comments be nice its just being genuine!

basically dont be a dick and just dont be harshe in anyway?I am a guy and can someone explain to me how to flirt with girls without showing too much attention?
try to be funny...laughter is a great ice breaker and u can flirt a lot like that....and lets say she didnt like a comment u made, u can always say u were joking.
1.just tease them, playfully obviously

2.Make them feel special

3. MAKE THEM LAUGH

4.Show interest in what she is saying

5. and dont try to go too fast



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this might help:

1. He stares at you a lot.

2. He hits you a lot. (just play hitting )

3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a conversation with you

4. He yelled, 'Hi!', to your mom that day she picked you up from school.

5. He blew off his buds to go see 'Run Away Bride' with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.

6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process

7. His voice gets softer ('Hey, you') when ever you two talk.

8. You hung up on him. He called you back.

9. You where invited by him to a group outing.

10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.

11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you laugh even harder.

12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.

13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.

14. He every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, ***, thighs, ect.)
sweetie, just be yourself . we like to laugh and have fun, maybe touch her gently on the arm when you talk to her and definitely compliment her.
It's a delicate thing. You have to start really, really small and watch carefully to see if the girl is receptive. Otherwise you are going to come off as creepy and weird. If you are around a girl, make some snarky observation about something in the immediate environment, like your school or workplace - something slightly subversive that she might agree with. If she smiles or seems interested, you can ask her something (not too personal) about herself - whether she's new there, or if she has any recommendations about lunch or something. If she still seems entertained, you might progress to making jokes or gently teasing her. The most important thing is to stop before she gets tired of you or weirded out. It takes some practice!