How to flirt with girls with maximum effect?

Well here is how--





First and foremost, remember listen more than you talk. This doesn't mean sit there like a dud, but ask a question, wait until she is completely done talking then agree with her.


Now then, start up a conversation with her. Speak with confidence and flow, but do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, pick-up artist, witty conversationalist, or having a profession that you do not have.


You can pretend the confidence at first. It will come more naturally when she responds to you.


Don't overwhelm her with compliments. You should focus on going from ';nice acquaintance'; to ';intimate friend/potential lover'; smoothly. Intimate friends joke around, tease each other gently, touch each other. Start with touching her on the arm when you're laughing (don't watch the hand). See if she touches you.


Don't act like you're trying to impress her. If she really does something stupid and is a little embarrassed (not horrified) call her out on it. Smirk, say, ';Wow - that was smooth!'; with a little smile, then change tone and say, ';Oh - come here!'; and comfort her with a little side-hug. If you do or say something stupid, don't just ignore it, either. Don't focus on it for too long, but just say, ';It's my first day walking. Give me a break!'; with a smile.


Throw in some jokes. Humor can relieve awkwardness. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well as confidence.


Show that you're secure with yourself and when you say something that you stick to your word.


If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke.


Sit close to her but don't breathe down her neck. Two chairs side-by-side are all that are needed. You might also be able to sit behind her and at times hit her hair a time or two. She'll turn around if she feels you, then make a joke that she finds humorous.


If she has a scarf on that you think it's nice, tell her, and touch her scarf for a few seconds, and ask when and where she got it


Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don't use it too much, otherwise it loses its humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.


Don't always be eager to start conversation with her. If she walks into class, you do not have to jump up and say ';Hi!!'; immediately, but if she sits next to you and initiates conversation, go for it!


Be the man! Girls hate it when they have to start the conversation or take the lead (Let her talk too though! Remember, listening is just as important!). You CAN go and sit next to her/talk to her, if she likes you she will not mind (she'll love it!).


Keep jumping from one topic to another while talking.


Tell her some short wise and wonderful story if there is a long pause in the middle of your talks.


Remember, strange as it may seem, since just about every boy is just as nervous about talking to them as you are, some very pretty girls have NEVER been flirted with or have had a boyfriend so dont scare her off! Sometimes these super popular girls are even lonely because they feel they have all these friends and no one wants to go out with her. So become her friend first and then move on to the flirting (don't stay her friend too long though; she may worry a relationship may ruin a friendship) this way you will not scare her off.


Find out her interests, and music she likes. Then talk to her about them. If you can't think of anything to talk about, use a conversation starter like ';How has your day been?'; or ';Don't you love this time of year?';. These most usually only work if you are already friends with her, and you see her on a daily basis. If you do see her on a daily basis and she mentions, for example, a vacation she is going on soon inquire where she is going branch off from there, and when she gets back ask her how it was. Don't be extremely serious in your inquiry, just ask it casually.


Don't let her get the wrong idea that you're just an annoying pest.


DON'T flirt with two girls at once. It will make her confused and stop liking you.











[edit] TipsRemember, no matter what sex you are, girl or boy, if you feel you just can't understand your 'flirtee' because of their gender, relax! Just about everyone feels this way. There's even a book making fun of this titled ';Everything Men Know About Women.'; It's 120 pages long, and every single page, other than the front and back cover, is blank.


Flirting is supposed to be fun, so the less stressed and/or the more relaxed you are, the better! BE HAPPY.


Make sure you don't smell bad or wear too much cologne.


Be sure to use whatever makes you stand out to your advantage to help her notice you. Be funny, charming, a good dresser, etc.


Be nicely groomed and brush your teeth.


After successfully getting the girl in a position where she wiHow to flirt with girls with maximum effect?
Just be funny, and get comfortable talking in a conversation. You need to have the confidence. Good Luck!How to flirt with girls with maximum effect?
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read the books.
just try to be funny get her to laugh as much as possible smile and make eye contact
Make them laugh and make them feel comfortable if you make them feel weird they will be so gone!
allrighhhttttt this is a fun question





okay well... be nice and funny when she talks let her talk laugh and her jokes and you make some jokes to break the ice...why not get online/text/phone call with her and ask about her and don't be too judgmental.





just be nice =D
eye contact
I'll answer this from my own perspective as a girl


One of the main things is to not make it TOO obvious. Don't use some weird pickup line and don't tell her you like her outfit. She's probably heard those things from every other guy trying to get with her. I would say to try and make eye contact throughout the night/day/where ever you are. That way, when you approach her it wont be sketchy b/c she'll have seen you before. When you approach her, be smiling. From tehre, just be yourself


Good luck!
confidence and be yourself at al times
Make at least ONE joke about how they are imperfect and how you are imperfect. The first step in approaching a girl, in many ways, is to remind her she's not ';above you';, that you respect yourself, and that you are EXPERIENCED and can confidently say you have something to offer. Always make jokes which are ';normal'; enough that she can understand them, but surprising enough to seem original and NOT like obvious cheap pick-up lines.





Don't feel guilty about touching her on the neck if she playfully slaps you a bit and laughing. Stand and talk in away that shows you are not ashamed of your sexuality and are talking to her ';for your own amusement'; rather than to impress her.





Remember, worst case you at least exchange a few jokes and learn something for the next girl...best case, well... :-)
first make sure your not talking to her for the wrong reasons but then after that id say eye contact and talking about somthing that wont lead to silence
hehehehehehe......... just be funny. cracking jokes surely gets them in a good mood. plus we love funny guys!