im a 15 year old guy and i was home schooled thru my middle school years... now in my last grade, 6th i had a lot of guy friends. now in high school, im having trouble making guy friends
the girls thought i was really hot and funny nad quickly i made a lot of girl friends.. i do have guy friends but there in my ethnic group and i want friends outside of it... i wanna be like those tough asshole guys but in reality im a shy dude and im kinda quiet. and i just need to get over it. becasue i hate being quiet and i want guy friends.
its weird, i guess i know how to flirt with girls and joke around. but im not a man. i WANT to be more manly and a jerk and that kinda stuff. i want to be an ****** type of guy. or atleast mature. i wanna have this bro b4 hoes stuff. i mean i do have guy friends but i have way more girl frenz than guys. and im good freinds with girls i just want to have dude friends. all of my guy friends are either from football or ethnic group. i hate hanging with girls 24/7I want guy friends?
stop being so naive!
i know that sounds harsh but you should reread what you wrote. it sounds awful. i understand where you are coming from but just be yourself instead of wanting to be all macho. plus, if you have all the girls, eventually some guy will notice you!I want guy friends?
';i WANT to be more manly and a jerk and that kinda stuff';
What the **** is wrong with you?
Just be yourself and stay away from them. If they are treting you meanly just don't hang out or be around them or look at them take my advice okay it will work.
hey im 15, and a girl and i hope this helps. but girls honestly love the shy quiet type of guys and it also helps if your hot too! but being a jerk and a *** doesnt show that your a tough guy or one of the ';men';. just start hanging w/ a group of guys that you would fit in with, but dont be too clingy. hope this helps =]
Try being involved in some things that include mostly guys. For example, sports, or any other type of activity or club that could force you to hang out with guys.
stay with the girls dude way more booty there um dont think you want to guy booty but think of this bros be4 hoes is a bunch of BS your just limiting yourself guys friends are ok but i rather be gettin a BJ instead of talkin bout one
Well, you should probably grow a pair.
Cheers!
~Crisp Cash
do u really want to change the way you are because other people tell you too , or because you are afraid of what other people will think of you..,, are you really that weak, just be your self and try to help out
It makes sense to want to hang out with more guys, but you don't want to loose the friends that you already have. Girls hate jerks, dont aim to be a bad person. It's really not cool. I think you should start talking to other guys more often, but becareful of the person you might become. Being shy is really hot and I bet all of the guys r jealous of how you talk to girls, maybe try teaching them how to talk to girls, that can build freindships real quick
no, forget that be who you are dont try to be somthing ur not. if they dont like you then thats there fault you dont want fake friends who only like you for the person that you are trying to become, b/c in the end they wont be true. dont rush things, enjoy life and the people who like u. b/c it's u they are liking.
try to act manly and learn man jokes about girls
I am a girl and I think your crazy. I kind of have the same situation: I moved this year across town and to a new high school. At first, I only made guy friends and it seemed like I wouldn't make any new girl friends. I am in dance and as soon as the first few weeks passed, I found myself with so many new girl friends because of that class, in addition to my guy friends. I still hang out with my old friends and I love my school now.
Just wait it out, and you will make new friends. But be yourself, because I, and so many other girls, do not want to be friends with some jerk. You sound really sweet and I don't think you should change just to make friends, because in the end you won't have any at all.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
Forget about nerves, I'm pretty much over being scared of approaching girls I like, but now I have no idea what to talk about. I hate it when people say, ';talk about anything,'; because when I look around my room I don't see anything I think a girl would be interested in. It's like when I'm asked out of the blue what I want to eat; 95% of the time I have no idea, not even remotely. My main problem is I am clueless in how to flirt with girls while I'm talking to them because I don't know subtlety. I don't know how to make my intentions of being more than a friend apparent w/o being obvious, such as saying, ';you have very pretty eyes';. I've read articles online about how to compliment or tease her uniquely and some say not to say ';you have pretty eyes.'; WHAT IF I LIKE LOOKING AT HER EYES BECAUSE I LEGITIMATELY THINK THEY'RE PRETTY!!!!!!! Other articles say touch her hand or hair gently. That sounds very awkward. Do you see what I'm getting at. Men are not subtle creatures. I often find myself talking to my other friends about science and I know she likes science. Also, I don't really know if I should try to get to know her first before flirting with her or flirt with her to see if she reciprocates the emotions and then get to know her more. As you can see I'm a VERY LEFT BRAIN thinker and to me flirting is very illogical. I'm not a very creative person and I like definition. I know girls differ, but if there is even a small guide I can use please help.How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
I think you're over thinking this way too much. Just be natural-be yourself. Anything less than this would seem awkward or forced. I suggest finding something that you have in common with the girl your interested in as a starting point for conversation. This might take some probing. Just ask her what she likes to do, find out where she's from, where does she work or go to school. Girls love it when you show genuine interest in getting to know them as a person. You sound like a very thoughtful, intellectual guy. That, in and of itself, is an attractive asset. Focus more on starting off as friends. It always works out better in the end. How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
Simply ask her questions about herself. EVERYBODY like talking about themselves - and once you get her talking it'll get you thinking about things you have in common.
';WHAT IF I LIKE LOOKING AT HER EYES BECAUSE I LEGITIMATELY THINK THEY'RE PRETTY!!!!!!! Other articles say touch her hand or hair gently. That sounds very awkward.';
LOL dude you cracked me up with this 1 (thats a good thing)
I think you're over thinking this way too much. Just be natural-be yourself. Anything less than this would seem awkward or forced. I suggest finding something that you have in common with the girl your interested in as a starting point for conversation. This might take some probing. Just ask her what she likes to do, find out where she's from, where does she work or go to school. Girls love it when you show genuine interest in getting to know them as a person. You sound like a very thoughtful, intellectual guy. That, in and of itself, is an attractive asset. Focus more on starting off as friends. It always works out better in the end. How can figure out what I can talk about to a girl I like?
Simply ask her questions about herself. EVERYBODY like talking about themselves - and once you get her talking it'll get you thinking about things you have in common.
';WHAT IF I LIKE LOOKING AT HER EYES BECAUSE I LEGITIMATELY THINK THEY'RE PRETTY!!!!!!! Other articles say touch her hand or hair gently. That sounds very awkward.';
LOL dude you cracked me up with this 1 (thats a good thing)
I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
i was in a relationship for 4 years, and i think i forgot how to flirt with girls. I use to be so good at it, but it seems so long ago. Im a decently good looking guy and i dont really have trouble finding girls. I just cant flirt with them.
Any tips.I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
Yes.
Different girls like different things.
Any tips.I forgot how to flirt. what do girls like again :)?
Yes.
Different girls like different things.
How to flirt with girls ?
This is how i do it. To make them laugh and show Im a cool guy.
Hey. You have pretty eyes (she knows ur flirting) then she says thank you. And then laugh lil and say I lost my number, can i have yours?How to flirt with girls ?
Why flirt with them?How to flirt with girls ?
dude girls are experts in flirting
Just plain bad luck, maybe lack of confidence you don't demonstrate value etc. Basically with any girl what you wanna do is start with a thing called a neg which means you say a brief statement to disqualify you as a potential suitor, then you kinda ignore her for a while and concentrate on her friend that increases her interest in you. Next thing you do is demonstrate higher value via jokes, and pretending to be rich smart sexy. At thi9s point you start looking out for IOI's which are indicators of interest such as touching her own arms or stroking her hair etc, to make sure u do a trust test all you do is grab both of her hands and moves them in different directions and then squeeze them if she follows that means she trusts you, at this point you need to isolate her from others. and start kino escalation basically touching her an making her more comfortable around you, at this point have a couple of sad yet romantic stories ready about how she should not loose any time otherwise love might slip away, than if you are confidence enough and wanna go for a kiss close just ask her what sort of a kisser she is most are usually comfortable with kissing you otherwise just get her number and repeat. Now I am no expert and I do have a limit to how much I can write but basically look up the mystery method online
it should come naturally. you shouldn't need a tutorial about how 2 flirt.
the simplest things , mean the most.
compliment her and be nice to her, but not like creepy nice, ya know?
Maybe get off the computer, get a life and actually talk to them.
Say they have nice boobs.
your a guy right well if you have girls as friends then don't be coz if you are friends with them they wont understand you are flirting so first move away from friendship then like always start a convo but not as friends and soon you will get her number and then ask her stuff and like dates
News Flash most girls dont flirt, and dont like flirting.
If you like a girl she will notice if you often give her a smile every now and then,
or Maybe just talk like a normal human being towards them, whats the worse that could happen?
Don't be a player. Be smart, be funny. Listen when she talks. Don't grope. Look in her eyes, no matter what kind of shirt she's wearing. Open the conversation with something she can follow-up on. If she walks away she's not interested. If she answers, there's your chance.
If you treat the girl like a live, breathing, intelligent human being instead of an automated sex-doll and/or some strange and vaguely repulsive alien, you'll get much further ahead.
omg
i do this all the time. it lands me heaps of chics.
I go up to a chic that i think is hot.
and i squeeze there ***. then when i get there attention i say:
Hey baby do u wanna fcuk while u say this. look at there boobs and slowly look up towards there face. they like this and they especially like it when u squeeze there ***.
ive been doing this for ages and i've fcuked around 40 chics and im only 19.
Hey. You have pretty eyes (she knows ur flirting) then she says thank you. And then laugh lil and say I lost my number, can i have yours?How to flirt with girls ?
Why flirt with them?How to flirt with girls ?
dude girls are experts in flirting
Just plain bad luck, maybe lack of confidence you don't demonstrate value etc. Basically with any girl what you wanna do is start with a thing called a neg which means you say a brief statement to disqualify you as a potential suitor, then you kinda ignore her for a while and concentrate on her friend that increases her interest in you. Next thing you do is demonstrate higher value via jokes, and pretending to be rich smart sexy. At thi9s point you start looking out for IOI's which are indicators of interest such as touching her own arms or stroking her hair etc, to make sure u do a trust test all you do is grab both of her hands and moves them in different directions and then squeeze them if she follows that means she trusts you, at this point you need to isolate her from others. and start kino escalation basically touching her an making her more comfortable around you, at this point have a couple of sad yet romantic stories ready about how she should not loose any time otherwise love might slip away, than if you are confidence enough and wanna go for a kiss close just ask her what sort of a kisser she is most are usually comfortable with kissing you otherwise just get her number and repeat. Now I am no expert and I do have a limit to how much I can write but basically look up the mystery method online
it should come naturally. you shouldn't need a tutorial about how 2 flirt.
the simplest things , mean the most.
compliment her and be nice to her, but not like creepy nice, ya know?
Maybe get off the computer, get a life and actually talk to them.
Say they have nice boobs.
your a guy right well if you have girls as friends then don't be coz if you are friends with them they wont understand you are flirting so first move away from friendship then like always start a convo but not as friends and soon you will get her number and then ask her stuff and like dates
News Flash most girls dont flirt, and dont like flirting.
If you like a girl she will notice if you often give her a smile every now and then,
or Maybe just talk like a normal human being towards them, whats the worse that could happen?
Don't be a player. Be smart, be funny. Listen when she talks. Don't grope. Look in her eyes, no matter what kind of shirt she's wearing. Open the conversation with something she can follow-up on. If she walks away she's not interested. If she answers, there's your chance.
If you treat the girl like a live, breathing, intelligent human being instead of an automated sex-doll and/or some strange and vaguely repulsive alien, you'll get much further ahead.
omg
i do this all the time. it lands me heaps of chics.
I go up to a chic that i think is hot.
and i squeeze there ***. then when i get there attention i say:
Hey baby do u wanna fcuk while u say this. look at there boobs and slowly look up towards there face. they like this and they especially like it when u squeeze there ***.
ive been doing this for ages and i've fcuked around 40 chics and im only 19.
How to flirt with girls?
if yoiur wondering HOW to flirt with girls start with a basic... compliment them and then compliment again... mabey a few times and never act nervous... you could evn do something weird like bumping into the girl on purpose and you can ask her what kind of music or food she likes and sometimes even if you dont like it say u do b cuz u will learn to like it when your with that girl...How to flirt with girls?
how to speak grammar?
how to speak grammar?
Should I reconsider?
Last year my friends and I were went to see the Departed after the movie a guy from school came up to me and asked how I liked the movie, I told him my opinion and then he asked if I would up for another movie right then. I asked him what was going on and he said that he was asking me out to a movie. I felt really nervous because I was dating someone else. My friends started laughing behind me because this guy was two inches shorter than me. I said that I had somewhere else to be and would call him later.
When I got home an hour later he had called his friends and said that I said YES!, and now i was his girlfriend. I called him up and told him exactly how I felt about his big mouth and hung up. Well this year he came in three inches taller than me and with this really hot hair and he figured out how to flirt with girls.He asked me out today
The only problem is, my best friend has liked him for two weeks, should I go for it and go out with him or stay with my friend?
HELP!!!!!Should I reconsider?
If he was dating your friend you should leave him alone. However he asked you out, not her. Go ahead and have fun.Should I reconsider?
You're still dating someone else?
When I got home an hour later he had called his friends and said that I said YES!, and now i was his girlfriend. I called him up and told him exactly how I felt about his big mouth and hung up. Well this year he came in three inches taller than me and with this really hot hair and he figured out how to flirt with girls.He asked me out today
The only problem is, my best friend has liked him for two weeks, should I go for it and go out with him or stay with my friend?
HELP!!!!!Should I reconsider?
If he was dating your friend you should leave him alone. However he asked you out, not her. Go ahead and have fun.Should I reconsider?
You're still dating someone else?
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
okay I'm a fourteen year old boy attending high school and, for the past like 5, to 6 days this nice girl has been flirting with me at first it started with her asking me the answers to questions when her friends already had the answers now, she some times sits with me when my seating partner is not there or behind me when she is and occasionally she will come over and talk with her to get my attention.
If I was like one of you i would have had that from time but i (sad to say) don't know how to flirt with girls all my life have been fixated on my grades I'm at a 87% average, and never really thought about girls for the matter, and I would really appreciate the help thanks.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Girls like to be complimented on little things. I am 15 and have had many guys flirt with me. Here are things that work. Compliment little things, Such as nail polish. We love to be complimented on our eyes. Also, a cute way of flirting is to say something like ';Wow you have small hands'; and hold your hand up for a 'hand comparison'. It's cute and makes you guys closer. Tell her that she smells nice. We love that. Never mention weight, height, strength, etc. We are often offended by those types of comments. make fun of yourself. And tease her on little things. Like if she is blonde, make a blonde comment. But then say ';Just kidding.'; Come off as cool and relaxed. Girls like a guys that is confident. Since you have never flirted before, This may be hard. But stay strong. There are toms of ways to flirt online. Just look them up. Best of luck.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Just be yourself... obviously the boy the girl see's is what she likes. so don't change just to try to get her to like you.
Don't assume she's flirting with you. that's a bad idea
talk to her and relax
the more normal you act the better things will be
dude, just talk to her. listen to her, be yourself she. she is intrested in you so you dont have to act ';cool';. get to know this girl more then when YOU are ready just ask her out to movies or hang. for a (not so much) first date invite her to come with you and your friends to the movies or park or mall ect... trust me, the #1 thing is to just be calm and be yourself.
Dear Brother,
since u said ur age is 14 %26amp; u r getting 87%,this is not a right age to think or discuss anything abt a girl.my suggession is concentrate more on studies only,since ur age is less u have a bright feauture.
decide a goal and go towards that
If I was like one of you i would have had that from time but i (sad to say) don't know how to flirt with girls all my life have been fixated on my grades I'm at a 87% average, and never really thought about girls for the matter, and I would really appreciate the help thanks.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Girls like to be complimented on little things. I am 15 and have had many guys flirt with me. Here are things that work. Compliment little things, Such as nail polish. We love to be complimented on our eyes. Also, a cute way of flirting is to say something like ';Wow you have small hands'; and hold your hand up for a 'hand comparison'. It's cute and makes you guys closer. Tell her that she smells nice. We love that. Never mention weight, height, strength, etc. We are often offended by those types of comments. make fun of yourself. And tease her on little things. Like if she is blonde, make a blonde comment. But then say ';Just kidding.'; Come off as cool and relaxed. Girls like a guys that is confident. Since you have never flirted before, This may be hard. But stay strong. There are toms of ways to flirt online. Just look them up. Best of luck.Girl problems help, please, and thank you?
Just be yourself... obviously the boy the girl see's is what she likes. so don't change just to try to get her to like you.
Don't assume she's flirting with you. that's a bad idea
talk to her and relax
the more normal you act the better things will be
dude, just talk to her. listen to her, be yourself she. she is intrested in you so you dont have to act ';cool';. get to know this girl more then when YOU are ready just ask her out to movies or hang. for a (not so much) first date invite her to come with you and your friends to the movies or park or mall ect... trust me, the #1 thing is to just be calm and be yourself.
Dear Brother,
since u said ur age is 14 %26amp; u r getting 87%,this is not a right age to think or discuss anything abt a girl.my suggession is concentrate more on studies only,since ur age is less u have a bright feauture.
decide a goal and go towards that
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